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“The thing is, sexual activity starts younger and younger,” Grosso added. “We don’t know what age that is. So we just said, ‘We’ll make it available to all of them.’ We didn’t want to pick an age, and I really don’t believe we’re going to get first-graders asking for a condom, as a practical matter.”
Most of them probably don't even know what a condom is.
Last week, the Guttmacher Institute, a research and public education firm with four decades dedicated to global sexual health and reproduction issues, announced the national teen pregnancy rate has increased 3 percent, after more than a decade of decline. The teen birth rate has also risen 4 percent, and the rate of teens getting abortions has increased 1 percent. The study compared data from 2005 to 2006.
Originally posted by airspoon
For one thing, sexual drive doesn't begin to motivate until puberty, making the kids not as apt to engage in sexual activities.
Furthermore, it is our responsibility as parents and school administrators to keep children from having sex at that young age.
Here's the thing, if I can't trust that the school is going to protect my children from harm, including sex, then I need to keep them home,
So in essence, we are being forced to give up protection of our children because the schools are refusing to do it and we are forced to send them to the schools.
What's wrong with the schools focusing on academics only?
And do you think that withholding condoms will be effective in keeping kids from having sex?
You're making the same mistake that a lot of people make. Thinking that NOT talking about sex or having access to birth control is somehow "protecting" them. In FACT, giving them access to condoms IS protecting them. From STDs and pregnancy.
Kids are either going to choose to have sex or not. Why not have protection available should they decide to. Believe me, I didn't talk it over with my mom before I had sex the first time. And I didn't use a condom either. If they had been available, I very will might have.
In a perfect world, nothing. But more and more kids are quitting school because they become pregnant. Keeping kids in school is a good thing.
Originally posted by airspoon
Elementary aged children? Absolutely, along with letting them know that it won't be tolerated.
This really has nothing to do with teenagers. This isn't the normal abstence vs. prevention argument, as these are small pre-pubic children.
If kids that young are having sex, it's either because they are forced to do it (either through manipulation or by physical force) or they are experimenting with it in the same way that they would experiment with cigarettes.
What I am saying, is that we shouldn't enable our pre-puberty aged children to have sex.
They do not have the sex drive so small children of that age aren't going to have sex whether we want them to or not.
Giving these small children condoms, is sending them a signal that it's normal for their age-group to be having sex.
She has no sex drive at the moment, due to lack of puberty and therefore won't have sex irregardless of what her parents or role models say.
Are you saying that it is okay for small children to have sex?
The point here, is that small pre-adolescent children are an entirely different animal than teenaged kids who have gone through or are going through puberty.
Again, you are not differentiating pre-adolescents with adolescents.
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Originally posted by dolphinfan
The problem is that teaching your child about sex is the responsibility of the parent and not the school.
If some low-life wants their kids to have condom instruction at 6, its their problem, not mine.
1. What's the harm of them having the access to condoms if they're not apt to be having sex?
2. Do you think that withholding condoms will be effective in keeping kids from having sex?
3. How can the school keep your kid from having sex?
4. And if the parents can't do it alone, what's wrong with some help from the school?
5. How does withholding condoms keep kids from having sex? Explain that to me.
6. If YOUR little girl decides to have sex, she's going to have a condom or they're not. What's your choice?
7. At what age do you draw the line?
8. And if they are experimenting, would you want them to have a condom or not?
9. Do you think giving them access to condoms is going to "wake up " their sex drive?
Originally posted by airspoon
Because it gives them the idea that it is normal for their age-group to have sex.
By giving them condoms but telling them not to use them, you are only going to send a mixed signal to a child of that age.
Handing out condoms to small children, only gives them the message that it is normal for them to have sex
My little girl won't decide to have sex, unless I send her a mixed signal to where she thinks it may be okay
Again, a five year old shouldn't be experimenting and if they are, a condom should be the least of your worries, as that child is being molested.
For instance, if I give my child a cookie before dinner, next time dinner is served, he is going to cry for a cookie.
I can tell you don't have children.
My children should be focusing on academics in school - from the school staff - that's it. Everything else is simply considered indoctrination.
--airspoon
Whats next?? Will they give the kids clean syringes? We all know how first graders love to shoot up.
Originally posted by ArchAngel_X
An endless supply of water balloons would have made wonderful havoc during every recess.