reply to post by halfmanhalfamazing
Yes, just because something seems good in our eyes, doesnt make it right!
Sometimes doing the RIGHT thing can be very harsh indeed. Pain produces growth, and without being tested, how are you supposed to know what you are
capable of? Sometimes you need a push, or you will stagnate and not achieve your potential. G-d is righteous, and always does the right thing. We mere
mortals will never grasp that fact, and the right thing can be seen as cruel sometimes; a bit like when mamma bird pushes her chicks out of a nest to
learn them to fly, without that push, they would never fly and be fodder for predators...
Sometimes that push may take your limbs, but then its up to you to transend your situation and exceed the sum total of what YOU think you are, to what
G-D knows you are. We are made in G-ds image, and like Him we can exceed ourselves, we just need a push sometimes to show it to ourselves.
As for the OP.... Does the coffee you made for yourself say to you "look what you made? You made me into a crap cup of coffee!!!!" Did you not make
that coffee for your OWN taste? For YOUR OWN pleasure? Do you not have the right to throw that coffee away if you didnt like it? And invariably we do,
but G-d gives us a chance, why? Because He is RIGHTEOUS and its the Right thing to do. But if you dont take that chance, then do not be surprised when
you find yourself being poured down the sink!!
You missed a couple of hundred other options as well
I might add. Your hatred blinds you. 
