Originally posted by DontTreadOnMe
So, when you join, you have to be questioned re: you motives?
Before you are accepted into a lodge there is some questioning that will take place and varies from lodge to lodge in some respects, although there
are the standard questions which are must be asked, ie. "do you believe in a supreme being"? etc.
How you are interviewed depends on how you contacted the lodge. For instance when I became interested in joining the Ancient Primitive Rite of Memphis
Misraim, I sent an email to the soverign sanctuary, with my contact information, reason for interest, a brief write up on myself and a curriculm
vitae. A few weeks later the Vicaress of the local lodge contacted me, we exchanged several emails, and then she invited me to meet some of the
brothers and sisters(as the A.P.R.M.M. accepts women). At the meeting we talked, I posed questions to them, and they to me. The questions posed to
me were very general, "why am I interested in the A.P.R.M.M" "Do I belong to any other masonic body?" "Am I aware that the A.P.R.M.M is a
clandestine rite?" "What books have I read?" "What things have I studied?" etc.
However when I was debating joing Masonry initially, (before my interest in the A.P.R.M.M) I spoke with friends of mine who are Masons. My final
conversation was with a close friend of mine who is also the Worshipful Master of our Lodge. As I am and have been an initiate of other orders
besides Freemasonry he and I had discusssed many topics over the years, exchaned books (nothing that would have broken any of our oaths of course) and
the like, so he had a good understanding of what I knew and where I was coming from, what I was seeking and why I was interested in joining. We
talked over lunch and the majority of my questions were in regards to his specific lodge, their bloodline, charter, rite, etc. At the conclusion of
that he then invited me to a meet and greet with other Brothers from the lodge. I went, and was questioned in solitude by several Master Masons as
well as the Worshipful Master.
I was asked "do you believe in a supreme being?" , "do you understand this is a very serious comitment?", "why are you interested in joining?"
"do you feel you can bring light to our lodge?" "what degrees do you hold in your other affiliations?" "will you uphold your oath of
brotherhood?" "what negative things have you heard about Freemasonry?"
Do many members get to say the 1st degree and go no further?
Unfortunately yes some only get to the first degree, although rarely. This typically happens when an individual is not serious about Freemasonry, has
joined for the wrong reasons, or is not upholding his oaths.
Surely, some only do join for the business connections, etc.?
Or, does the "informality" vary from lodge to lodge?
People with these motives rarely make it into a lodge and if they do they don't last. I have known some who entered the lodge with this goal in
mind, but their experience in the lodge changed that, that no longer remained their focus and they became outstanding Masons, outstanding Men.