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Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
This is a human phenomenon that I truly don't understand. I know that they say it's instinct. That males are genetically driven to 'spread their seed', and females are genetically driven to bond with one male. But women cheat as well as men, so it can't just be genetic. There must be a psychological component.
I have never cheated on someone, but have been cheated on almost every time. Thoughts???
Tell your partner and move on. Why drag it out?
Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
I know that they say it's instinct. That males are genetically driven to 'spread their seed', and females are genetically driven to bond with one male. But women cheat as well as men, so it can't just be genetic. There must be a psychological component.
Originally posted by suomichris
With men... there is an evolutionary advantage to "sowing one's seed"... this allows their genes to be propagated without them having to invest any time in the raising of the children...
Women... are seeking two things: 1) a strong, healthy male who can 2) provide for her and their children. Normally, younger males are in better health and produce better sperm. However, younger males are often less able to provide for the children.
Originally posted by Rockpuck
I personally think women cheat just as much if not more then men... Women however are less likely to get caught.
Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
This is a human phenomenon that I truly don't understand. I know that they say it's instinct. That males are genetically driven to 'spread their seed', and females are genetically driven to bond with one male. But women cheat as well as men, so it can't just be genetic. There must be a psychological component.
I have never cheated on someone, but have been cheated on almost every time. Thoughts???
Originally posted by mblahnikluver
When you figure this out please let me know because I always get cheated on! I have never cheated and I never would. Every long term relationship I have had ended because of cheating. I am not a bad GF, actually they have all tried to come back after realizing they messed up. I am not needy, jealous, or pushy so I dont get why guys cheat on me! My friends say I am too nice and get taken advantage of. My bf now lives in AL and it is REALLY hard but I trust him even with the past I have with men cheating on me in the same town..lol I have always wondered what made them cheat. This is something I think will remain unanswered!
Originally posted by watsgoingon?
Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
me-myself-i-dont-understand-this-phenomonon??
right-now-in-these-times-it-seems-to-be-fashionable-to-cheat.
i-blame-T.V-and-especially-music-the-music-that-is-all-over-the-charts-for-eg:Timbaland-and-artists-he-is-producing-for,-alot-of-the-songs-are-in-that -vein,-cheating-and-"getting-down"-and-the-like?
as-they-say-"music-is-food-for-the-soul"-and-that-music-is-having-the-same-effect-as-fast-food-is-having-on-our-physical-health!
maybe-he-made-a-deal-with-the-"devil"?
peace