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Originally posted by Soxgirl9
I know this is a little off-topic, but the divorce rate really is out of control.
When you get married it's supposed to be:
* For Richer or Poorer
* In sickness and in Health
* The Good Times and the Bad
* AS LONG AS YOU BOTH SHALL LIVE
.....that means:
* if you go ABSOLUTELY BANKRUPT, stay together.
* if one of you is sick with the common-cold or in a coma, stay loyal.
* if your partner cheats on you; work it out.
* Good Times and Bad: marriage can be a battle, so fight to protect it, end of story.
* if you just don't love each other anymore... oh well, you made a promise; should have racked your brains before rushing OR if you're married a long time and just fell OUT of love with each other, AGAIN, OH WELL, work it out somehow!
* no matter what, this PROMISE is LIFE-LONG.
* and for those of you who are religious: "Let no man divide what God has brought together"
....I know it's easy for me to say because I haven't been married, but it's just a shame how some people get sucked into society and forget to simply keep their promises.
Originally posted by whatukno
What is total *snip* is the concept of no fault divorce. Obviously there is a reason for getting divorced. Does it not make sense that someone who wants away from an abusive relationship be treated differently than someone who only wants the divorce so they can sleep with the next guy they come across?
Also isn't it logical that if someone is to pay child support to the other party that the other party be accountable for those funds? Also shouldn't it be the responsibility of the party that has custody of the child to keep the lines of communication open and contact the non custodial parent?
Originally posted by whatukno
reply to post by asmeone2
I have to disagree, if she cannot support herself obviously she is unfit to care for my son. (This isn't the problem in this case as her new hubby/victim is quite well off so that's a good thing.)
If I had to pay for her car, her house, her utilities that would be called alimony. I absolutely refuse to pay her one red cent. I will send my support for my child, because that is my child.
But here's the thing, that's not being a father. A father should have the opportunity to help raise the child.
Originally posted by AccessDenied
Originally posted by Soxgirl9
I know this is a little off-topic, but the divorce rate really is out of control.
When you get married it's supposed to be:
* For Richer or Poorer
* In sickness and in Health
* The Good Times and the Bad
* AS LONG AS YOU BOTH SHALL LIVE
.....that means:
* if you go ABSOLUTELY BANKRUPT, stay together.
* if one of you is sick with the common-cold or in a coma, stay loyal.
* if your partner cheats on you; work it out.
* Good Times and Bad: marriage can be a battle, so fight to protect it, end of story.
* if you just don't love each other anymore... oh well, you made a promise; should have racked your brains before rushing OR if you're married a long time and just fell OUT of love with each other, AGAIN, OH WELL, work it out somehow!
* no matter what, this PROMISE is LIFE-LONG.
* and for those of you who are religious: "Let no man divide what God has brought together"
....I know it's easy for me to say because I haven't been married, but it's just a shame how some people get sucked into society and forget to simply keep their promises.
You are correct. If you haven't been married, or divorced, you cannot judge.
Yes I stood inside a church built by my grandfather, and said "I DO"..to a guy who was drunk at the altar, drunk, high and abusive for 20 years. Didn't give a damn about his kids, and none of us gave a damn when we ALL kicked him out.
Please save your speech.