i know how scary a childs behaviour can be at any age (mine is 11 by now!)
but i wouldn.t worry to much and i wouldn.t trust doctors to much, coz they ususally tend to see in an individual behaviour something that should be
first i think he seems to be a normal child, he is active and he plays
don.t be worried that he doesn.t talk really. that will happen when the time is right
my son was able to walk for 4 months at the furniture, i knew he would be able to walk without help he didn.,t wanted, then one day he did it without
any problems and any fall down
is he able to understand and also to duplicate when you talk to him?
like handing you over a toy?
than you know that he is understanding really
since he seems to be very actice i guess he just takes his own down time
to relax, to get rid of the stimulation a kid has to face every day
and don.t forget that between 2 and 3 kids recognize themselves an unique person.
before that time they think that they are a unite with their mom
and kids recognize that they are capable of doing thing and which causes more problems not capable of doing things
which lead to the terrible twos
maybe your son has found a fantastic way to help himself, to manage the feelings of frustration.
would be interested how he proceeds