posted on May, 20 2008 @ 05:04 PM
Ok so this is my view.
In the original post the OP goes on about STD's and pregnancy. Well quite simply the chances of catching an STD or causing a pregnancy are very low
when using a latex barrier (condom). As proof i provide this link
Condoms when used correctly (they often aren't) are without a doubt a perfect defense against STD's and pregnancy. I am not bragging or boasting but
i've had a fair few sexual partners, i have not yet contracted a sexual disease or caused a pregnancy. I happen to take extra precautions, for
example oral sex should not be performed unless you know that person to be disease free. In the case of it being performed on a man then again a
condom will protect you.
The moral argument is lost on me sadly, as is the religious argument. I will put it this way, firstly if god truly cares about who i have sex with,
then god is rather petty. I think the idea of "no sex before marriage" is born (pardon the pun) out of the old times where one session of
intercourse could easily lead to a child. The times before birth control would mean you basically lost your heir, it was a bargaining chip to have an
Also how about this for a moral arguement. I think being able to please your partner is very important, knowing what goes where, how it works, why it
works etc. Surely if you have multiple partners you learn many things, how to control yourself, what to do (generally speaking as each person is
different) and a sense of confidence are gained. I think it's a responsible thing to have at least a few partners before you get married so you can
please your current partner. Afterall this means you're taking their feelings into account and that's surely very important.
That's my view on it anyway, i will continue, whenever possible to pass myself around to any woman i find attractive and can bear to put up with me.
I enjoy the act itself and is this truly a crime as long as i take very careful precautions?
In fact that's my last arguement, if i enjoy something then shouldn't i be allowed to continue it as long as i do not harm another human being? If a
baby results because i am one in a very large number and the condom breaks, then yes i will pay for it. Although there are so many reports of condoms
breaking i should point out it's because of misuse or lack of lubrication that this commonly occurs.