Caballero,
I dont have any problems showing women respect who are capable of giving or showing me something about which to be respectful. I find this very
lacking in many of todays women. Many of todays men too ,for all that matter. Not all but many. And the number of many is growing.
Oh..by the way..I dont have a problem with women getting drafted and going off to war. This is equal liability as well as equal responsibility. It is
equal..not just semantics.
However..it will cause huge problems in discontent with people who have survived to that point..on default settings to play through unchallanged.
I just jumped both my nieces and sisters backside this evening ..for trying to pass through..default ..on such cheap settings and thinking that no
male would challange it. I let them know in no uncertain terms that there was a man in this house..,not a doormat. I am not intrested in that girl
stuff religion...or Victimization defaults.
My sister is heavy into that femminist claptrap and thinks no men can think their way through it.
Eyes open doors,
If the man goes against the supportive role, the growing child within is affected. The woman who is pregnant is vulnerable. The woman is
more emotional. The purest form of love is limited through the lack of intent of the parents. The actions of both parties ripple outward and inward.
Do you think the average male cannot think through this one. It looks good on paper as a thesis...how does this supporting role look in the face of
abortion? How does the purest form of love look?? How do women as more valuble in this social structure look?? Someone out here tell me how many
abortions were performed last year?? I am not quite sure how to look it up. Just dont expect to default through with me on this one.
One can replace the word love with potential. Within the womb of every pregnant woman lies potential to heal the ills of the world. If
abused that healing can form into harm. So when I say women are more valuable to society, it is out of the greatest respect.
This looks pretty silly in the face of the abortion stance promoted by the womens groups and the government through planned parenthood et al.
I am not saying here that women are not valuable..not at all am I saying this.
Potential to heal the ills of the world?? Is that like Magic...being flashdanced through ..magically?? Who is going to be taking the RISK for all this
to take place and stage this event....solving the ills of the world??
And I bring this point up out of the greatest respect.
By mens blindness as to what woman is. I speak from experience. I have be acquainted with too many married men that just play in their relationships.
They complain about them, the cheat on them, they take advantage of them, they abuse the sanctity of their role.
This..Eyes..is textbook stereotyping. I can make this point about many women I have known. I often express this as the "appearance of commitment"
rather than be committed. You mean women dont do this type of counterfit role playing game?? And do it by stealth to an incredibly ignorant and
imperceptive male?? I mean..after all ..he is getting her body once in a while..why would he ever think or expect more??
Point here is that I too can speak from experience.
If I want to hear this stuff I watch television ..it is all over the place.
It does not default through with me.
Women tend to place more importance on looking attractive. I feel that biology plays a roll in this.
I agree with you here...for purposes on which Whitewave elaborated. This often blinds many women to real female value...and substitutes ersatz value.
This works on many men as long as they dont think outside of social defaults.
Oh..and as someone on another thread posted ...Duzey I think..women dont always look attractive for men..they often do it as much against the other
women.....status. This can be very primordal.
The power struggle in an unhealthy relationship creates harmful interactions. Such as an unwillingness to share vulnerability in the bed. Or
demanding money, or denial of money if said vulnerability is withheld.
You are losing me here. Can you elaborate more on the specifics of this declaration.??
Both the sexes are accountable individually in a relationship
Not in a default social set up or a default relationship and especially if one party does not know it is going on.
In a healthy relationship which honors a partnership, such things as money are miniscule. Interpersonal risk is far more important to a
relationship.
I agree here. However..this does not conceal or discount that defaults are taking place...and are even becoming fashionable and marketable..a
lifestyle for many.
Shazam,
Then you are either lieing, or you have never been in one. I've known champion fighters, olympic wrestlers, Army MMA fighters, and Black
Belts, and not opne of these legitimate badasses could honestly say they ad never lost a fight.
YOu do understand, and Whitewave has graciously confirmed for me, that women are always in the survival mode.
I have been unfortunate in witnessing several women fights and it was quite shocking..the first one...very feral..even primordal..right out of the
wildest primordal ooze. The first one left a lasting impression on me to this day.
Why on earth would a woman want to fight in a manner as does a man?? It is quite obvious to me that most of them have no intrest in it. I have had
women try to get physical with me in this womans manner. I have no problem sweeping thier feet right out and quickly from under them..nor putting them
in an arm or wrist lock. What I worry about are those darned nails. Dude..they are quite feral with those nails.
I do know this about most women ...you threaten their children..and you are going to have a tiger by the tail and cannot let go. Woe to any man or
other woman against a woman like this if they have a real weapon and know how to use it.
I can and will respect a woman like this for her motives. This to me is one of the highest purest expressions of love..even if it is a man doing this
for his children. It is not just the provincialness of giving birth..but also the struggle to raise the children....the fruit. The RISK...male and
female.
Oh..as regards women fighting...I liken this to guerrilla warfare. Stealth. Even with all its primordal ferocity. I dont blame them for this.
Guerrilla warfare is become quite popular today and going into what is called Fourth Generation Warfare. I suspect women have been way ahead of the
curve in this stealth...for milleniums. As I have said...many times..subtilty is a very very powerful tool...or weapon. Can I get an AMEN on this??
Oh..again..you do understand that more and more women today are purchasing firearms.?? Yes?? I dont fault them for this. There is alot of wildlife out
here..male and female. I am trying to teach my woman more center mass shots up at the gun club. She is working on it and it takes quite a bit of
ammunition(38 Special) but I reload so it helps. Mind you now ..she doesnt like to shoot unless she has on surgical gloves as she spends alot on her
nail jobs. Guess what ..I dont care..I buy her the gloves if she shoots and practices. Up at the class for her concealed permit..the other person who
could consistently shoot straight was in fact a woman. It was obvious to me that she had logged much time with her tools. Most of the other guys were
all over the paper. I admire that woman for her work and potential. She has good motivation..she is the night manager at a resteraunt ..and does the
night drops at the bank. I would too.
I agree with what Whitewave says here
If all a woman needed or wanted was brawn, she could train an ape to move heavy objects pr employ wheels, levers, pulleys, etc. Men need to
be more than muscles, just as women need to be more than T&A. As long as both sexes persist in this one-upsmanship nonsense, the senseless battle will
continue.
Whitewave is a nurse. Having dated two nurses I know what some of the risks are in this occupation. Most of the public hasnt a clue.
As part of my nuclear qualifications I know how to use levers pulleys , wheels wire and rope. I am a trained rigger making knots etc. Also a
qualified crane operator. I know what the risks are in my profession. Around the home I use more and more of this when I move heavy loads. Work
smarter not harder. I use my come along on heavy loads rather than tostesterone when possible.
I also agree with her that women need more than T&A around me. I can get that all over the place in lieu of taking up with a woman. It is not a rare
or endangered commodity in the marketplace.
I dont fault a woman at all if she can figure out how to use pulleys, chains etc etc..or failing this ..blink her eyes and get a man to do it for
her. More power to her. Pity the guy dumb enough to fall for this however.
I will continue further by posting again as I am running out of characters down at the bottom of the page
Orangetom
