reply to post by ben91069
From what I know. Boyfriends are not allowed in the clubs where the girlfriend works. Any club that allow the BF to come into the club is just
asking for a fight.
So now to the OP. Do you desire money, or love?
Im sure if thats what she wants to do than go for it.
I can only offer you my advice.
Its mentally harsh, and can really do things to girls minds if they are not prepared to deal with the energy that is going to come forth to them.
Drugs, cash, the alure to a better place in life.
And then you could end up alone,becasue you wanted money. The root of all evil, would be the very thing that could lose it all for you.
If you love her. Why would you want to have another man touching her.
Or better yet offering her 500$ or more to sleep with her, and have sex. Oral or otherwise.
And you would tell yourself, she wouldnt do that. Keep telling yourself that, because in a matter of time she will turn to the darkside when
surrounded by dark energy.
If you meet a girl and she is a stripper, no reason to try to be what I call captin save a hoe.
IF you meet a girl and shes not a stripper.. Id suggest you keep her out of those places. Otherwise I could say you really dont love her, and you are
just looking for her to bring some stripper friends home so you could have a 3 some. Your selfish ways will bring an end to any love you 2 might
Ive been around the block to know a thing or 2 about strippers. And most of them are good girls, but come from broken homes, drugs, and other
lifestyles that lead them into that lifestyle. NOT because they want that. But because its easy route, and easy money. When the whole time they
lose their soul 1 dollar at a time.
There is no way in hell I would let the love of my life be a stripper.. I would get 2 jobs before that. I wouldnt be like hitler and say NO way!
But just say if thats what you want in life.. Then maybe you are not the person I thought I knew.
AS I dont care what you think about those places. Guys do touch them. Guys do grope them, google them and offer them everything they ever dreamed.
Promise after promise, you will slowly lose touch with her.
Your sex life will be altered.. After a long night of dancing and having strange men touching her.. Last thing she will want when she comes home is to
touch you! Sex will go right out the window. And anything specail you 2 had will be gone.
Unless she is on the level of like porn star women, where they can have sex with many men, and then come home and have sex with their partner.
But then they must create 2 sides of themselfs. And then you never know which person you are going to deal with.
1 of those girls will be lost in drugs and sex.. While the other half so despretly tries to hold onto what she feels as normal.
Most of those girls commit suicide. Most of those girls become hookers.
And all of them feel used, and abused deep down.
Ive dated enough of these girls in my youth to know. once you start down that dark path, it only gets worse. And can really mess them up.
It sucks that money will push people into this lifestyle.
But it happens all the time.. ITs all part of the bigger plan to control you, and your life. HOw they control the minds, and get them hooked on
Those with power have this set up so nicely to destroy you and those you love with the filth they create.
AS a guy, I love me some boobies.. but I stay out of strip clubs.. THey have a very dark vibe, and I feel pity formost those girls in there.
I know the games, and the lies they feed their Johns every day.
I know all to well..
Thus I suggest if you love her.. Dont let her get into this..
IF you are just looking for some money.. WHy not just put up an add on Craigs list, and be her pimp.. That way you would have some control over whats
IN a club, you have no power.. They wont allow you in the door being her Boyfriend, and for good reason.. It will eat you up inside.
And you will want to kill those guys.. Honestly man.. YOu will be set on fire within your heart if you really care for her.
I know.. Ive been threw this once.. Never agin, will I put myself threw that kind of mental, physical torture.
[edit on 15-4-2008 by zysin5]