posted on Sep, 16 2007 @ 02:45 PM
If someone is abusing this girl, you should report it to the authorities immediately. If an individual is abusing a woman, who is possibly carrying
your son, then you should have reported it to the authorities the second you heard of it.
If you question her motifs for a second, you should ask her to go to the hospital with you, to have medical confirmation that she is in fact
As for getting back together with her, just ask yourself one question: "If she wasn't pregnant, would you even have to think about it?
You should not go back with her because she is pregnant. You should go back to her if, and only if, you actually want to share a relationship
A child is better served growing up with a single mother, and a dedicated father in his life, rather than a set of parents that despise one another.
If you can not get along with the mother of your child, you should not be with her. Whether you try it or not, the resentment that will develop for
the mother, it will trickle to the child. And I'm certain that nobody involved wants that.
First things first, pick up the phone and contact the authorities. Abusing women is absolutely despicable. Abusing a woman who is pregnant is beyond
comprehension. If you do not contact the authorities, you are enabling this violence and unfortunately, guilty as well.
I'm not sure of your state laws, but where I come from, you are mandated by law to report the abuse of any child. If this woman is pregnant, and is
being abused, connecting the dots is not very difficult.
Pick up the phone.
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