posted on Nov, 3 2007 @ 02:18 PM
Originally posted by MrdDstrbr
In your face, orangetom!
Yet another condescending post about "stupid" men not "thinking".
This is not the way to make men love you, orangetom....
Ive got to hand it to you MrdDstrbr...your deep..very deep in your thought pattern...your fingerprint. Original too.
I am not intrested in men loving me...women too. I am intrested in what a woman can bring of value to a man...not "Drama." IF I want to be subjected
to "Drama" I go to work. Lots of drama there at work.
What a woman brings to a man of value to him...from her labors moneys earned and efforts is called love. Another word would be commitment. Not just
operating within a framework of female beliefs and expectations. But being able to see and understand what he lacks in his life and being committed to
filling that lack in some manner. This is very different from the " appearence of love or commitment."
IT is not sex or sexuality...it s not beauty or sometimes called "the best years of her life." and other catch phrases. It is something more
valuable than those transients.
What Vegemite got was appearences..not the real thing. They went up quickly in smoke and mirrors.
What is intresting in threads like this one is the reaction to these concepts from deep thinkers like yourself.
Remember ..real love and conceren reflected in results...by her efforts,moneys or chaos, drama...and the appearence of love ... by the confusion
heaped on the male...through histronics. Which one did Vegemite get from this woman??