My exgirlfriend, turns out she's pregnant, page 3

MrdDstrbr,

Are you male or female, orangetom?

I have a really hard time believing that a male would go ON and ON about how "stupid" men are, like you do....

You are VERY obviously female and fooling no one.

Your deep ...no doubt about it ...very deep. I gotta hand it to you. Congratulations.

As for the emotional abuse and manipulation of men by women, well yes that is possible, but ONLY to the extent that a man is "stupid"

Thats what I was saying..precisely. Not that a man puts all his eggs in one basket but he does not put his eggs in a basket which is not worthy. If he puts his egges in a basket worthy ..fine ..I am glad for him. It is up to the individual men to educate themselves sufficient to pull his head out of his backside and get some fresh air...clean out his brain cavity. This requires clear thinking about the true nature of a thing..not the appearence of a thing or a deception. A counterfit ..which is what the OP had on his hands and didnt seem to undertand. To much emotional baggage blocking his thinking.
Do you think this is a concept for which a woman/female is likely to educate or invest in a man only to risk losing him to the next woman? Women dont tend to want to educate their man in the nature of a woman. They tend to want their men ready made..not a project in the making.

THe OP is not ready for this type of education as of yet. This is obvious to me. They would rather spend a career for now in rescuing females to the point that he helps the females like this keep his head up his backside and be proudful enough to post this stupidity on BTS.
The question for me is at what age will his head come out and the fresh air start working??

This is a male problem in dumbness. Lots of males out here like this...at any age. They just dont think things through ..but emote instead.

It is not difficult for a man to avoid that trap at all.

It is very difficult for a man/male to avoid this if they are not experienced in it or taught the fundamentals. Very difficult.

ALWAYS have options and choices - because options give you power.

This last statement of your's is a fundamental principle of female thought and power structure. It does not come naturally to most males.
Performing and doing for females comes more naturally to males without thinking about the value of their prerforming or the risks involved.
It is sort of like sports conditioninig for males. They know more instinctively how to carry out the play...and score the touchdown. Sports condititioning is conditioning to do ..to perform....even to thier expendability and disposability. Is this not what is concerning/worrying the OP??

Its very easy for some women to give the guy the clue and cue..the play to carry out and he will run for the touchdown for her. Understand?? Lots of women know this...they are not about to clue in the male to this kind of thinking but keep him running for her touchdowns. NOt all women do this ..I am not implying that.... but it is more prevalent than ever publically told. The OP is a guy who will standby to run the play and touchdown for her. She knows this. Just give him the clue and cue..the play and he will show up to run for the touchdown.
He has indicated this by his willingness to continue as friends when she has obviously deceived him about her pregnancy. She is a train wreck and he is willing to follow her into the crash site to score the touchdowns.

Thanks,
Orangetom

[edit on 22-10-2007 by orangetom1999]