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Originally posted by think2much
Hmmm...I think you can tell alot about someone from their job/ education, but then again...sometimes not. So I understand when people seem defensive or give disclaimers or qualify their job in some way so as not to be seen stereotypically, because not all stereotypes fit!
Just like in contrast, some people simply use their job or title to try to seem more important or interesting or intelligent than in they could possibly ever be!
If anythinhg, my username here defines me best. But should be longer to say "writes2much" as well, huh?
I'm not defensive or ashamed of anything I am or have done, as many would assume by all I write here like some disclaimer but I'm just trying to make a point as I do understand when others seem "defensive" to others just because they don't want to be stereotyped by their occupation...like when people think all guys who have anything to do with computers are nerdy dorks, you know...when in reality only MOST of them are.
Anyway, what I do, have done, or am, doesn't define me... exclusively....and certainly not by the definitions or preconceived notions usually perpetuated, yk?
For example, right now I'm a DAV/HW+M3 (how is that for an ambiguous/cryptic acronym title and combo?!)
Spell it out? Well...OK, DAV=Disabled American Veteran
So right now I am apparently "disabled" and a Vet-what images and preconceived notions does that conjur? Most people first think me as scruffy, unshaven man in his 50's... and in a wheelchair...um no...see below
Likewise, I am a HW+M3 which ="Housewife and Mother of 3"...any more preconceived notions there? Usually...either nazi sports/soccer mom or overweight, poorly groomed welfare collecting woman yelling at her kids :::shiver::::
And then just usually all the preconceived notions of either of those do not likely mesh to form a pretty picture either! Hmmm lets see...lets combine them to make me a wheelchair bound woman with scruffy unshaven legs wearing a camo bandana, with tatooes on her arm and yelling like a drill sergeant at her kids then? Bahaha! So not. :shk: I'd post a pic of me and my kids but my husband would deficate mortar! :::Hi Honey!:::
So anyway, I do understand where people have the perspective that what you do is not necessary who you are. Like I am not the vet people first picture..but often when people who know me now think of me (or a woman) in the military often they think of someone is dress blues doing an office job too-nope not that either.
My military service included a 7 month deployment for Desert Storm. I'm in my 30's not my 50's. I did not have a nice administrative job, nor was I a masculine "I can do anything a man can do...and better" fem, or the "d" word which I wont use that derogatorily is used for homosexual women that dress, act, and look like men, yk?
Active duty I was...well probably shouldn't get too specific...but I worked flightline avionics/electronics maintenance on a specific system on a specific aircraft. 5 level
In the guard I worked fuels and cryogenics. 5 level
I also did a short stint as a cargo specialist in the reserves and guard too. 3 level
Originally posted by Amuk
I ride a Harley and chase women....its a tough job, but someone has to do it
Originally posted by mecheng
I'm a mechanical engineer.
Originally posted by CarlosG
I'm also a Mechanical Engineer
Originally posted by Jadette...back in the late 1980s I was in an all female heavy metal band, signed to Geffen Records.
Originally posted by whaaa
T2M, I play with lots of women in various bands. Not only are they fine musicians; they bring a harder edge [when called for] to the music seldom heard
when just guys play. If you want to play; start now!
Originally posted by DrBones666
Whaaa is right, if you want to play something, get started now, the earlier the better, I started piano when I was 7, and to be honest didn't really like practising that much when I was a kid, now I'm 21, play 6 instruments, and couldn't imagine my life without it!
Originally posted by skippytjc
Originally posted by Jadette...back in the late 1980s I was in an all female heavy metal band, signed to Geffen Records.
Vixen?
Originally posted by NJE777
thanks think2much...that is exactly the point I made just after your post but I hadnt got to reading yours. What an exciting life you have led up to now. I think you could write a book about changing hats and challenging stereotypes. (snip) Really was impressed with your contribution. I really think you could write a book about your experiences!!!
Originally posted by Amuk
I ride a Harley and chase women....its a tough job, but someone has to do it
I guess you could say I work in sanitation.
I remove the garbage.