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originally posted by: Damla
a reply to: Specimen
that sounds real selfish. i think you didnt read the thread.
originally posted by: TNMockingbird
a reply to: Damla
I truly believe that one can only be married successfully for their and the potential spouse's own reasons and no one else's desires. I was married twice and neither were out of an overwhelming heart fluttering can't breathe/live without the person kind of situation. They were both for legal reasons.
My mother wanted me married for some years and I resisted as it was not in my heart.
I hope that you find happiness for yourself and anyone else that is wanting you to do something that you are not ready for or truly desiring will eventually come around, I hope.