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originally posted by: SprocketUK
a reply to: kerrichin
You make some good points there.
It's a strange cultural thing that we see strong, active women as somehow less than the ideal. Especially when historically the Celts and also Vikings were happy to let their women fight.
Blame the Romans I guess.
Good for you though. Hope your old man is proud that you have his back.
originally posted by: Caver78
a reply to: ClovenSky
I agree with you 100%
It's not victim shaming to say if you put yourself in a risky situation you assume the risk.
Going to meet someone in a hotel room?
Yeah, business meetings are held in offices or public places. NOT rooms with beds in them. I don't care who you are or where you are this is common sense.
It doesn't excuse the other parties behavior, but there is a risk that by participating you assumed it.
The world is not, and probably will never be a safe place. If you aren't going to take responsibility for yourself and your own safety why would anyone else? The "I didn't know, I didn't anticipate, I was taken advantage of" doesn't cut it .
It's up to YOU to cover your own six. This applies to everyone.
It's ludicrous to expect that non-predatory behavior is the norm. Doesn't mean you don't get out in life and experience things, or live in fear. It just means you are responsible for you where ever you are.
Pointing the finger at the perpetrator?, well three fingers are always pointing back at you. To say that's not true is a lie you tell yourself. Just because you "should" be able to go out to diner, go jogging or to a party and assume it's a normal non-risky activity doesn't mean it actually is.
ClovenSky
originally posted by: NarcolepticBuddha
a reply to: toysforadults
You start the thread with "Apparently.."
but do not even give one example of a woman failing to stand up for herself.
Are you sure this isn't just a thread to ruffle some feathers?
originally posted by: Phage
a reply to: toysforadults
If he asks you and you say yes what the hell!!
Are the ones who said yes the ones who are talking?
originally posted by: Phage
a reply to: OccamsRazor04
For example?
The two ladies gladly joined him, and offered him some weed. He turned it down, but asked if it would be OK if he took his dick out.
Thinking he was joking (that's exactly the kind of thing this guy would say), the women gave a facetious thumbs up.
"You asked but we never said yes," tweeted the account of comedy duo Dana Min Goodman and Julia Wolov.
And Rebecca Corry, who said no when C.K. asked if she would watch him masturbate, retweeted comedy writer Katie Rich's response, "If a woman wants to see your penis she will tell you."
Corry was filming a television pilot in 2005 when C.K. allegedly asked if she would accompany him back to his dressing room so he could masturbate in front of her. Corry reminded him that he had a daughter and pregnant wife (Alex Bailey, whom he was married to from 1995 to 2008). “His face got red, and he told me he had issues,” Corry told the Times.
You have not provided a source. The original article (NYT) says nothing about him being given a thumbs up.
So which is it, did they give him a thumbs up, or did they never say yes. They have given contradictory accounts.
Nor were they in his dressing room at the time.
And we know of people who said no to him, and he did not whip it out.
Implied consent then. Wonderful.
Can you show me any times Louis was told no and did it anyways?
originally posted by: Phage
You have not provided a source. The original article (NYT) says nothing about him being given a thumbs up.
Implied consent then. Wonderful.
The woman alleged that he asked her repeatedly to watch him masturbate. She was in her 20s and agreed.
That's one person. And she had more to say about it.
No, actual consent every time.
www.nytimes.com...
“It was something that I knew was wrong,” said the woman, who described sitting in Louis C.K.’s office while he masturbated in his desk chair during a workday, other colleagues just outside the door. “I think the big piece of why I said yes was because of the culture,” she continued. “He abused his power.” A co-worker at “The Chris Rock Show,” who also wished to remain anonymous, confirmed that the woman told him about the experience soon after it happened.
Well, since he's "admitted" how wrong he was, there's not much point, I guess.
so far no one has come forward saying he came after them if they said no.