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originally posted by: cyberjedi
'HOW A WOMAN RUINED MY LIFE?'
How about taking some responsability here? title should read 'How I ruined my life'.
a reply to: GoShredAK
If I do get her back I'll never take her for granted again.
If I don't, I don't feel like I will ever be truly happy again
originally posted by: cyberjedi
a reply to: peter vlar
The lives of these children are far from ruined, if anything, it will make them strong. Adversity is a bitch but they will be prepared come adulthood.
originally posted by: AlienOutlaw
Women...
I consider myself a wise man for having avoided their clutches for so long.
originally posted by: thesaneone
a reply to: GoShredAK
When it happens I can swear to God with no doubts, I will be the happiest person alive...
Sigh.
www.kenaifriendshipmission.com...
originally posted by: GoShredAK
a reply to: randyvs
You right.........i woke up this morning at the mission and a pretty Cool guy named Gary gave me basically that Same advice........
This is a Godly place that is meant for broken men to rebuild their lives..........
So that's what I'm going to do.
I'm gonna stop worrying about her so much and focus completely on bettering myself.....
I'm gonna save my money until I can afford a place of my very own......
That way no matter what happens I'll have a place to take my kids.
If she decides she wants to take me back I will happily accept that, if not I'll be fine on my own and just put all my focus towards my kids........
I did not think I was whining bit I guess I was........I was very unhappy living in that apartment so all I did was dwell on my misery.
Now that I am back here at the mission I can truly start working on myself.
originally posted by: GoShredAK
a reply to: spliffster
Apologies for the short post, I keep deleting long replys on accident............
I am hopelessly in love with this girl, so as far as we have come I cannot let her go, she will have to break my heart again.
I'm sure if I snapped out of my selfish lazy ways and started to make being a great husband and father my top priority, she would be haply and not consider drugs.
Though I won't get my hopes up, things are looking good;
.we talk every day, she always calls me babe or love or similar
.shes not getting along with the pos dude and plans making him pack his # and leave tonight
.sne kisses me
.beyond that, she has cheated on him with me three times
we have plans to hang out all day tomorrow, so tomorrow will be another day
.she even drove me all around all day, helped me movie out of this terrible apartment I was living with, back to the friendship mission. ........after all that she drove about 45 minutes to pick me up from McDonald's at 11PM.
I don't wanna jinx it but within a few months I may actually have my beloved wife back, and my kids around everyday......
When it happens I can swear to God with no doubts, I will be the happiest person alive........ill be beyond ecstatic I could accomplish anything and nothing could get iny way.......