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originally posted by: Darkphoenix77
originally posted by: dr1234
originally posted by: Darkphoenix77
Odds are it is really nothing, those may just be spam messages from bots. As far as your girlfriend is concerned my advice is just be honest and actually talk to her. Nothing will kill a relationship quicker than a lack of communication or a lack of honesty. I would not necessarily confront her, but just talk and listen.
Maybe, but the first one wasn't a bot. I had a conversation with her. The second one who knows.
Even if, it may not be what you think it was. People are also capable of pretending that they are what they are not and it may have been an attempt to eventually phish some information.
originally posted by: TheBulk
a reply to: dr1234
Sounds like bots are messaging her.
originally posted by: TheBulk
a reply to: dr1234
Sounds like bots are messaging her.
originally posted by: dr1234
originally posted by: Darkphoenix77
originally posted by: dr1234
originally posted by: Darkphoenix77
Odds are it is really nothing, those may just be spam messages from bots. As far as your girlfriend is concerned my advice is just be honest and actually talk to her. Nothing will kill a relationship quicker than a lack of communication or a lack of honesty. I would not necessarily confront her, but just talk and listen.
Maybe, but the first one wasn't a bot. I had a conversation with her. The second one who knows.
Even if, it may not be what you think it was. People are also capable of pretending that they are what they are not and it may have been an attempt to eventually phish some information.
I want it to be that, problem is the second I started asking who she was she stopped responding. In my mind, she realized if it was my girlfriend she wouldn't ask this, because she knows who she is. She never asked for info or anything. Also, from years of experience, "hey" is the online equivalent to "interested in some sexual conversation?
originally posted by: dr1234
originally posted by: TheBulk
a reply to: dr1234
Sounds like bots are messaging her.
First one wasn't a bot, I spoke with her. Second one? Weirded me out. Hey hun u around? As if they hook up when she is in town, which makes sense because she spent time away at school. Idk man I pray it is just bots or some weird #. These seem like humans.
originally posted by: openyourmind1262
You should as soon as possible......get somebody to give you some paragraphs & a lot more folks will respond to that wall of print.
originally posted by: bender151
a reply to: dr1234
1. there are tons of bots on there. Practically no one is real, especially if they look like a supermodel. Welcome to the internet. You didn't hear back because the person isn't real. If you're "lucky" they'll ask you to login to a dating site to talk to them... which obviously makes no sense. Or they may give you a long distance number. I'm not sure where that scam leads, but I would advise against calling or texting it.
2. if she has the app, and is using it (check her outgoing messages), then she either IS cheating on you or intends to.
Seriously, I use the app and I get random "hey hun, you around" message about half a dozen times a day. Seriously, welcome to the internet. If I wans't so lazy I'd post a screenshot of the three "hey hun, you around" messages I have right now. All spam.
The bigger issue seems to be that you're an insecure jerk. Not uncommon. Talk to her. You know, like a man.
Sorry if any of this is harsh or hurts your feelings. Just be a respectable person and ask her about it. Bad part is, since you've already betrayed HER trust, you're going to have to come clean too.
originally posted by: chrismarco
a reply to: dr1234
Two problems...one you are checking her phone and two she is still on kik...
Sounds unhealthy and you need to move on. Why? You check her phone so there will always a trus issue and two she just may be bi and depite what people are saying don't expect to be walking down the isle with this one.
If you live with her start making plans to look for an apartment and if you don't live with her thank your lucky stars and move on..
Should I confront her and admit I've been snooping?