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originally posted by: dude200181
Hi all I never had a girlfriend and I am 24 years old what should I do about it. I also have no friends in real life
originally posted by: JourneymanWelder
originally posted by: dude200181
Hi all I never had a girlfriend and I am 24 years old what should I do about it. I also have no friends in real life
and? kind of vague statement dont you think? crying on the internet wont do you any good.
originally posted by: dude200181
Hi all I never had a girlfriend and I am 24 years old what should I do about it. I also have no friends in real life
originally posted by: Mandroid7
Quit over-complicating everything.
It goes like this...
Whats your name? I am Bob.
What are your interests?
See who will talk. It's infectious.
Then it's just a numbers game...
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, yes! Ok
If you smile alot, they will come and nobody likes whining.
originally posted by: dude200181
a reply to: TechniXcality I know right lol
originally posted by: dude200181
a reply to: TechniXcality I play videogames most of the day like mabey 8 hours or more everyday and that's about it really.
originally posted by: olaru12
I know this is going to g0 against the grain of "be responsible and get a job" advocates but there is another approach that worked for me.....
I grew long hair, I learned a few songs on the guitar, I owned a cute dog, I hung out where the hippie girls hung out.
I memorized some very funny jokes to break the ice and start conversations. "Hey, wanna hear a funny joke" is the best pickup line there is!!! This technique might not work for long term relationships but if shallow, casual sex and one night stands is something that might interest you....it works, they will pick you up, btw....wear protection.
Read the Karma Sutra and learn erotic sexual techniques...the ladies will spread the word among their friends, that you are a good lover and your reputation will sky rocket. Sorry about that corny phallic reference.
However...I feel a word of warning is required. You will attract women that are lonely as you are. Many of them have deep seated psychological issues that will drag you into their lives and make you miserable.
Sometimes just for fun and to see if this technique still works in the current cultural milieu; I go to starbucks or a bar and give it a try....it does!
I am much older, paunchy, bald, myopic, but it doesn't seem to matter much....the moral of this story is that; People and women in particular, want to be noticed and appreciated with attention. Give it to them with grace, style and sincerity.
originally posted by: MystikMushroom
originally posted by: dude200181
Hi all I never had a girlfriend and I am 24 years old what should I do about it. I also have no friends in real life
Get yourself a crown like me:
Don't just live life...RULE LIFE.
Women love dudes in crowns.
originally posted by: dude200181
Well I know one thing I will be alone forever no matter what
originally posted by: lovebeck
Well, with that attitude you probably will be!
Enough of the pity party, sheesh!!
Newsflash, the vast majority of women CANNOT STAND men who are whiny cry bags!!!
We want a protector, someone who makes us laugh, a provider, a stable partner in life and someone to take charge in certain...situations.
At least those of us who aren't feminists and man haters do.
Stop whining, get your sh!t together and build your confidence...After that all the other stuff falls into place. BUT you won't get anywhere and, more importantly, will not attract a quality individual with all the whining and pity party BS.