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posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 02:44 AM
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a reply to: NightWillFall

Donald trump... Is that you?




posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 02:46 AM
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originally posted by: Lysergic
a reply to: NightWillFall

Sounds like a horrible replacement.


Minds differ still more than faces.


Nobody is out there trying to get the better of him


Anxiety often stems from feelings of insufficiency or a general sense of low self-worth. The moment the OP demands basic human dignity and respect, regardless of whatever actions he should take to improve his situation, is the second he'll begin to come out of his shell.


But hey, Welcome to back to ATS.


Is that sort of like being welcomed back to the future?

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posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 02:48 AM
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originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: NightWillFall

Donald trump... Is that you?


Only the NightWillFall part



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 02:51 AM
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a reply to: NightWillFall


"Men are like steel — when they lose their temper, they lose their worth."



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 02:53 AM
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a reply to: Lysergic

Voltaire > Chuck Norris



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 02:54 AM
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originally posted by: NightWillFall
a reply to: Lysergic

Voltaire > Chuck Norris


Okay, but if you believe that quote was from Chuck Norris, you are wrong. But the internet told you he did amirite?

Again, there is no need to be an angry crumbum, when one can be assertive without doing so.
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posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 02:59 AM
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a reply to: Lysergic

Law #1 of the Internet: Everyone's wrong.

Anger is a defense mechanism. It should be used where appropriate.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 03:01 AM
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originally posted by: NightWillFall
a reply to: Lysergic

Law #1 of the Internet: Everyone's wrong.

Anger is a defense mechanism. It should be used where appropriate.


ohok.
enjoy that.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 04:04 AM
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a reply to: dude200181

Don't worry so much.

Don't fixate too highly on what you feel society expects of you in terms of a girlfriend or friends. You are a unique individual and your needs and desires don't necessarily match with everyone else's.

Try and find out what your interests, what you enjoy doing, and what you are good at doing and head in that direction.

Anxiety is very difficult to manage for most people that experience it, but it is able to be managed.

Good luck, friend.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 04:49 AM
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I'm going to be blunt to be helpful.

The OP is a loser.

And the fact your caught up in self pity and makeing excuses means your going to keep on being a loser.

A girl won't date losers.

So stop being a loser.

A loser doesn't have to stay a loser. In fact many winners were losers at some point.

Start being a winner.

This is from personal experience.
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posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 05:45 AM
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That is probably the best advice here, no amount of hand wringing and sympathy is gonna help this guy. The defeatism and self pity permeating this thread is just annoying and pathetic to be honest.

Everybody has insecurities, hangups and anxieties...you can either choose to be crippled by them or go out and take what you want from life.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 06:31 AM
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a reply to: MagnaCarta2015

The special snow flake treatments not going to work.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 06:34 AM
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a reply to: dude200181

tells us about your boy friends then


what are your social circles like?
Do you have hobbies?
do you work?
Are you Obese or normal looking?

alot of factors come into it. initially its either physical attraction that gets things started and or Humour is good too.
if you are obese, no job, unhygienic etc then there's your answer

if you not this then could be other things. Confidence is important also.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 06:37 AM
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Well even being a fatwad isn't a problem if you have a job and confidence.

Know a few chubos with smoking hot girlfriends. They could bring in the $$$$$ and make the girls laugh.

Hell I'm not brad pitt and a few stone overweight and can pull.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 07:32 AM
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Well even being a fatwad isn't a problem if you have a job and confidence.


so true, i know a large Muslim guy that aint all that- but has the gift of the Gabb. He pulls wicked girls and just talks. Humour and confidence is definitely the key things in my opinion - If girls like you that way they dont find the rest such an issue such as a job and work around it.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 08:09 AM
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I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence, or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me. Hunter S. Thompson



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 08:42 AM
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Hey people I am back online



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 08:44 AM
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I read your posts too and I see most of u all are to help me.



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 08:44 AM
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originally posted by: dude200181
Hey people I am back online


Got a job yet?

If not log off and start finding one....



posted on Apr, 8 2016 @ 08:45 AM
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