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originally posted by: Informer1958
a reply to: coop039
Yes, give the little girl a 2 x 4 before going to school and tell her to knock the hell out of the bullies in front of everyone.
They will never bother her again, furthermore if this seems to bother the Teachers, tell the little girl to say these bullies need to grow some thick skin.
originally posted by: coop039
I dont know if this is the correct forum or not, mods move if needed.
My friends little girl is being picked on at school by other girls. Specifically, black girls. They continually call her cracker and biscuit, and tease her.
She is 9 years old. Many teachers have seen and heard the the girls pick on her, but upon confronting the school my friend was told his daughter needed to grow a thicker skin. This just infuriates me! If it was white kids picking on black they would be in deep crap. Im guessing the school is afraid to confront the racial problem.
Any ideas on how to deal with the situation I can pass on?
originally posted by: tinner07
My suggestion would be to move away from that whole situation. If my kid was going to school with a bunch of piglets like that I would. Honestly I wouldnt live there in the first place.
Its never going to change. Yeah you can call the board out and call racism, you can teach her to fight, but it won't be 1 v 1
Odds are its a black run school, all about promoting black issues. Girl doesnt stand a chance. let the animals destroy their own stuff and move the girl to a civilized school.
originally posted by: coop039
I dont know if this is the correct forum or not, mods move if needed.
My friends little girl is being picked on at school by other girls. Specifically, black girls. They continually call her cracker and biscuit, and tease her.
She is 9 years old. Many teachers have seen and heard the the girls pick on her, but upon confronting the school my friend was told his daughter needed to grow a thicker skin. This just infuriates me! If it was white kids picking on black they would be in deep crap. Im guessing the school is afraid to confront the racial problem.
Any ideas on how to deal with the situation I can pass on?
Are you seriously that completely out of touch with reality?
originally posted by: anxiouswens
I'm so pleased she is doing so well with her life, one day when she is successful I hope she bangs into the bullies and finds they havent been so successful. Karma can be great!
I agree with your stance. I have had some trouble this year with my 8 year old son. He has had a really tough year. His school year are a bulge class, 44 of them and every year some have to mix with other years to make a split year class. He has been separated from his main core group of friends and his closest friend left at start of school year, so he has felt completely on the outside. On top of this one of the boys who has always had it in for David has tried everything to exclude. As any parent will know its like a stab in the heart when you see your child distressed.
I spoke to Headmistress who didnt seem to take much notice just kept telling him how popular he was in new class. She didnt seem to see how insecure he felt and how distressed.
Eventually I put everything in writing so she had to respond and said if there was no improvement would be speaking to Governors and Education Board to explain why I was withdrawing child until things were sorted. She then dealt with boy and moved David's dinner hour so he could still sit and play with friends.
So thats what I would tell your friend to put something in writing and explain (threaten lol) what she will do if the situation doesnt improve.
Makes by blood boil with bullying. Its easy as an adult to say grow a tough skin but not so easy when as a child you are suffering. I was fortunate I was never bullied but still remember the pain of fall outs with friends.a reply to: nonspecific
originally posted by: Metallicus
a reply to: coop039
File a discrimination suit against the school and the district. They will settle it so fast it will make your head spin.