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originally posted by: SallieSunshine
When I was a kid and other kids tried to bully me I would just give them a silent, cold stare. This worked really well for me. There are different ways of standing up to a bully, though. Some kids fight. Some kids make funny sarcastic remarks. Some kids get a bunch of their friends to surround them. Each kid has to find a method that works for her. The important thing is to not show weakness or fear. That just encourages bullies. Because bullies exist throughout life, from childhood thru old age, you have to learn to deal with them. The current method of trying to stop kids from bullying doesn't seem to be working.
Sal
a reply to: coop039
That post sounds a little racist?
originally posted by: tinner07
a reply to: nonspecific
That post sounds a little racist?
it should. but why shouldnt it or why cant it? Why must we be so into diversity that we can't say we want to move our families away from blacks that act like animals?
Why is it racist to suggest moving away from the problem rather than resorting to violence?
The black children in the OP learned that at home or on "the street" at school.
Does it make me a racist to have had my children grow up and go to school in a white community?
You want to promote diversity, enroll your white child in an inner city black school,
Hopefully blacks will learn to behave before we run out of room for white flight.
I don't think what I said was racist at all.
originally posted by: Metallicus
a reply to: coop039
File a discrimination suit against the school and the district. They will settle it so fast it will make your head spin.
originally posted by: TonyS
a reply to: nonspecific
Its not racist......its just the probable truth of the matter. Honestly, if you don't live in the US and have first hand knowledge of how things actually work here, you really have no place commenting on the situation, much less implying that someone's response is racist.
originally posted by: TonyS
a reply to: nonspecific
How is what relevant? The fact that you stated you're in the UK and not in the US? Its relevant because if you haven't lived the US experience in these "School Districts" means you can't possibly even begin to understand how things actually work here.
Let me put it this way. One day, I was riding the cross-town bus to work and two teachers, both Black females, were talking loudly and in excited manner about the conduct of a "new" teacher in the public school in which they worked, a Big City Independent School district which is 70% Black, 25% Hispanic and the remainder "white" and Asian. They were heard to comment that the school district shouldn't even hire "white" teachers, and for a number of reasons, but most of all because they believed the "white" teachers were racists. That made it pretty obvious that they didn't want white teachers in "their" schools and they certainly don't care to have "white" students in "their" schools.
The environment here in the US and particularly in the big cities is unlike anything people in the UK or Australia can possibly relate to. And, I don't blame you for that, but really, its a bit much when you presume to declare a statement racist when in fact, its just a statement that describes the actual situation on the ground as it exists!
originally posted by: MagnaCarta2015
My dad would take me to the streets where the bullies lived on weekends and make me fight them while he watched but that was a much different time.
I honestly don't know what the answer would be these days, everybody's quick to sue, police and social services get in the mix and the consequences for standing up for yourself can be incredibly serious especially if you live in a violent area with a lot of gangs.
Tough situation to be in and I feel for any parent that has to go through it.