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originally posted by: Freija
Even if you put biology aside for a minute, how can a man say they know what it is like to be a woman or know more about women than women do?
Have they ever been talked down to or had their opinions be discounted just for being female? Been treated with the attitude that a woman's place is in the kitchen making sammiches for them? Been objectified and judged because of their looks or body? Been subject to laws regarding the choices a woman is allowed to make about her own body? And how many men haven't taken advantage of certain aspects of male privilege or been part of some good o'l boy network that looks at women as weak, inferior or as second class citizens? Sure there are exceptions and differing situations but how often are men concerned about being raped or assaulted by someone physically superior or in greater numbers? The list could go
Granted, I may be a lot older than some of you here and from a time when sexism and misogyny was more blatant and obvious than it is in today's PC culture and my own attitudes toward men may be less than thinly disguised but men know more about women than women do? Yeah right. Add the biology back in and most of them are even more clueless.
originally posted by: peppycat
a reply to: valiant lol! God forbid I should have to deal with such an arrogant person again, but yeah, my comeback would of been or would be something like, '' your too arrogant to even know your own self!''
and I did learn something from a wise older friend who said to me 'not to cast pearls before swine.' when I asked what she meant, she said I shouldn't have to say any personal experience I've had to such a man because he doesn't recognize it for how deep, meaningful or how much pain it caused me.
Alot of folks here at ATS also recognized that just saying that the clothing guy creeped me out, should have been enough and I'm very grateful for that because I really didn't know if I was just over sensitive.
I personally don't wan to discuss anything a woman struggles with in life (also labeled the controversial subject known as feminism) with you because you seem to have big issues with the opposite gender. I suggested you take these issues to another forum where feminism is the main topic being discussed and debated because I'm not interested in getting into it with someone so against women. That's how you are coming across. I'm not pro woman anti man. I was sharing an experience about two men who in my opinion, were not respectful of a woman or what a woman goes through.
originally posted by: jobless1
originally posted by: Freija
Even if you put biology aside for a minute, how can a man say they know what it is like to be a woman or know more about women than women do?
Have they ever been talked down to or had their opinions be discounted just for being female? Been treated with the attitude that a woman's place is in the kitchen making sammiches for them? Been objectified and judged because of their looks or body? Been subject to laws regarding the choices a woman is allowed to make about her own body? And how many men haven't taken advantage of certain aspects of male privilege or been part of some good o'l boy network that looks at women as weak, inferior or as second class citizens? Sure there are exceptions and differing situations but how often are men concerned about being raped or assaulted by someone physically superior or in greater numbers? The list could go
Granted, I may be a lot older than some of you here and from a time when sexism and misogyny was more blatant and obvious than it is in today's PC culture and my own attitudes toward men may be less than thinly disguised but men know more about women than women do? Yeah right. Add the biology back in and most of them are even more clueless.
lol the feminist rises! I bring up feminism in my post and point out how its related and the poster tells me to start a new tread. Yet will address this posting ok favoritism and group think are good I guess all this poster wanted was an echo chamber of yes men or woman.
Have they ever been talked down to or had their opinions be discounted just for being female?
A:No I'm a white male who has never been talked down too or had my opinions be discounted lol.
Been objectified and judged because of their looks or body?
A:Again White male so why don't you add in history I was never apart of.
And how many men haven't taken advantage of certain aspects of male privilege or been part of some good o'l boy network that looks at women as weak, inferior or as second class citizens?
A: Generalization at its finest. LOL male privilege what like the ability to pee standing up? Take off less sick days, work more hours, Die younger, be looked at like a racist, bigot simply because I'm white and have to worry I'm not up against an native American/black/ Chinese or white women or Native American/Black male when searching for a job because they need to fill a quota yet be looked at as privileged. O that kind of privileged
Add the biology back in and most of them are even more clueless.
A: I'm sure many male doctors are bubbling idiots who have only studied the male side of everything you know "good ol boy right!.
Yep, as a privileged white caveman I easily understood that from your OP.
originally posted by: peppycat
I'm not pro woman anti man. I was sharing an experience about two men who in my opinion, were not respectful of a woman or what a woman goes through.
No! It's dark and creepy!
originally posted by: peppycat
feeling up clothing is kinda funny