A Question for Bi-curious Men

originally posted by: grainofsand
a reply to: thesaneone

No disrespect taken, or presented towards yourself by me.
But "There is only gay or straight!" as an assertion was always going to be challenged by somebody...and I felt the urge this evening.

Human beings are sexual, even those who label
themselves asexual, bi, gay or straight... in the
end, to be human means being sexual. You may
have a low or high libido, and how every you
happen to express that, it is just being sexual.

Am I wrong?

a reply to: wasaka

No.

originally posted by: thesaneone
There is no such thing as bi your either gay or straight!

Actually its quite the opposite, There is no straight or gay, everyone is somewhere in between, percentage varies depending on your chemical interaction in your brain, but no one is 100% on any side.

a reply to: luciddream

Such an honest and valid point. Thank you.

originally posted by: luciddream

originally posted by: thesaneone
There is no such thing as bi your either gay or straight!

Actually its quite the opposite, There is no straight or gay, everyone is somewhere in between, percentage varies depending on your chemical interaction in your brain, but no one is 100% on any side.

It is a spectrum. Human beings are just sexual.
The label we attach to ourselves can change.

originally posted by: grainofsand

originally posted by: thesaneone
There is no such thing as bi your either gay or straight!

Lol, where is this binary world you live in?!
Haha, you are joking right? I know, and have known, lots of people who are bisexual, male and female.
Gotta be a joke

Ditto on that, and I have the exact opposite opinion. I don't think anyone is 100% straight or gay. 95% tops.

originally posted by: wasaka

originally posted by: grainofsand
a reply to: thesaneone

No disrespect taken, or presented towards yourself by me.
But "There is only gay or straight!" as an assertion was always going to be challenged by somebody...and I felt the urge this evening.

Human beings are sexual, even those who label
themselves asexual, bi, gay or straight... in the
end, to be human means being sexual. You may
have a low or high libido, and how every you
happen to express that, it is just being sexual.

Am I wrong?

Well said.

To address the OP, I only find one thing attractive about men and it's definitely not their personality. Even then there has to be a woman involved. I see it more as sexual transference than an actual physical attraction.

Like...

I have an erection > He has an erection > We both have erections > Pick a hole > Should we flip a coin?

Sorry if that was too graphic, not trying to be vulgar. Just honestly explaining the logic in play with a dash of lewd humor - and seriously, at 6 pages in, anyone still reading shouldn't be offended...

a reply to: CretumOrbis

Loll. I understand. No, you weren't being vulgar. The only reason I enjoy their personality is because of same interests. Soo you could look at it more of a spiritual connection than anything else. Which is a completely different topic.

a reply to: ExternalForces

Didn't mean to imply that I don't like men's personalities, just that there's nothing arousing about them. I like to belch and fart as much as the next guy but that doesn't mean I think it's sexy... Kinda cute when a woman does it, but again, not sexy.

a reply to: CretumOrbis

Oh for sure. A man's personality can be attractive. Although I may be confusing personality with attitude. I think they are intertwined in a way.