a reply to: IkNOwSTuff
This is all your business and your doing IkNOwSTuff. You walked into it ..you let yourself be deceived and now you feel bad about what happened.
You need to educate yourself about this kind of thing...as it comes in variations all over the world. It is indeed a type of scam and women all over
the world use variations of it to justify their behaviors. They just don't often tell the world of what they are doing.
Are all women like this ..no they are not..but it does not serve you as a male and a male with potential to walk into something like this unarmed and
I see this often here stateside of the variation where women with children marry up the economic ladder time and time again to improve their lot and
their childrens .lot only to trade the guy in on a model with more potential down the line...later.
I was recently disturbed to find a woman whom I know...sold off all her husbands stuff for cash when he passed away. She did not even give his
children by a previous marriage the option to get some of it but went for the cash instead.
It was obvious to me why she married him so many years ago...it was for a safety net...and she called that love. But when he passed she went quickly
back into the fast food lane. High Speed..low drag. She will hunt down another man ...when life gets to difficult. It is predictable.
You need to train yourself to spot this template and it's variations. Appearances verses the real thing.
You are looking for a woman who can bring you Peace in your life..not just Piece...Understand now??
That is ..if you are looking long term...and not short term.
Peace is the commodity a good woman brings to a man...with or without children.
Any man can get Piece. It is not difficult to get a woman to take off her clothes. I even know women for whom taking off their clothes is about the
only skill they have in life. Anything else would take work and commitment.
Variations of this kind of woman go to a man with the "Appearance " of commitment...so that they never really have to be committed. This is what you
ran into in Laos..but they are everywhere...not just in Laos.
It is up to you to educate your self to spot this kind of thing...to learn the tell tale signs of it...how to identify it.
The video supplied by one of the poster here is very appropriate.
Men and males tend to "try out for female approval" In so doing they make themselves very vulnerable without thinking.
You need to train yourself to be disciplined and not spend so much time and monies "Trying out for approval." Hence reducing your vulnerability.
If you listen to the woman in the video..she is describing males who try out for a womans approval..by bringing her stuff.
Monies and goods. In most of these videos and stories ...these women may know what you do for a living...but if you notice carefully...what is not
there is the type of RISK a man takes for his monies. She has no regard for the RISKS a man takes for his monies..only the monies is what she is
This is open blatent "Objectification of a male." Do not ever let a woman tell you that they do not objectify a male. They do it all the time. The
standard BS Mantra..is that only males objectify women..not so.
Going out in the club scene is sometimes like filliing out a resume ..so that women can measure your potential...objectifying a male for his
potential/monies. Access to monies without RISK on their part.
You need to teach yourself how to gain access to or filter out/Identify this type of woman predator without making yourself so vulnerable. You need
to learn how not to run touchdowns or go for the goal post...by trying out for female approval to the point of making yourself so vulnerable.
This is a survival skill..in case you missed the point.
Here is another video which has been posted on ATS somewhere back. But notice how these men try out for the approval of these women while they are
being "rinsed out " by these same women for their monies and goods. This Laotian woman was attempting to Rinse you out. But you caught on to it and
got out on your own. Well done before you lost more of your time and monies.
Watch and learn. Not all women are like this but this is not an excuse for you being ignorant of the mine field which can happen out here and often
When you learn...you realize that you did half or more of the work of Rinsing yourself out...she just let " you think it was your idea" ...that you
were leading her..not so. You were trying out for approval...rescuing her.
Get over and past the concept of being a "Good Provider" by trying out for female approval. Putting your time and monies/Risks on the table for
female approval. You need to be able to tell and understand/know that you are getting real value for your time/monies/ and RISKs..and not the
"Appearance of Value." These are two different things..one is a counterfeit...understand now???
This is why Peace is far more valuable than Piece. Peace takes much more commitment from a woman than Piece.
Are you even knowledgeable enough to know the difference.
For I know women who will give a man Piece..to distract him long enough to run with the monies/risks/and goods...only to repeat the process later. But
never give him any long lasting value....only the appearance of value.
What was this Laotian woman good at??? Particularly once you dropped the blinders over your eyes??
Nice guys often finish last...so too ignorant guys. Educate yourself. Learn to build a BS filter.
Hope this helps,
Not all women are like this ..but it is not an excuse for you being ignorant. Otherwise you will repeat this scenario over and over again and once
again make yourself vulnerable via your ignorance about true conditions out here.
Learn the difference in the real thing and a counterfeit. Educate yourself. What you ran into is a counterfeit.
edit on 24-11-2014 by orangetom1999 because: (no reason given)