originally posted by: skalla
a reply to: IkNOwSTuff
Sounds to me like you both knew exactly what you were doing. Just take it on the chin man, you got what you should have expected if you are honest
No doubt she was hot, and on balance probably worth it or you wouldn't have tangled with a girl who you immediately assessed as a "lying
I don't think IkNOwSTuff knew what he was doing at all. IF this were so..he would have gotten different results than stated in his OP.
I don't believe he knew or understood about Male vulnerability ..or Male Expendability or disposability and how males do this to themselves by trying
out for female approval.
Once one knows..it matter not how hot this woman or any other woman is...if she is "High Maintenance."
High Maintenance only means that a man who tries out...must sell, barter, or trade more and more of his soul for her approval.
A properly thinking man knows that no amount of beauty or access to sex is worth selling ones soul to such a phony template.
I have taught several men to shut their women down when they try that olde ploy about...."You come to me only for one thing.!!"
Every male I have taught this to and applied it ..noticed that their women never brought up this tactic again.
They told their woman point blank...that they knew several. women who's major skill set in their tool box was taking off their clothes. That there is
no "Oil Shortage " out here. Most women will believe this because deep down inside they understand the competition far better than do most men.
Most women are accustomed to dealing with a man who has a desperate "Oil Shortage " and therefore it is easy to get a man to "Heel" like a dog at the
prospect of getting cut off from the "Oil Pump."
If she is ignorant enough to tell you to go to one of these women...with mostly the skill of taking off their clothes...drop her right there...and
don't go back. She will never get the message. She thinks she is sitting on the only one in town and needs you to believe it is so ..this way she can
When you take serious risks for your monies..you should never be interested in coming in second or third place behind a woman's whims or wants with no
regard to your RISKS...by trying out for approval and being subject to a phony "Oil Shortage Belief System."
Striking Oil is not a commodity in short supply out here. It never will be.
What is in short supply...is a woman who can bring a man Peace and the knowledge/wisdom to so do.
This is not the same thing as beauty and sexuality. Beauty and sexuality ..verses Peace are often at cross purposes out here in this phony deceiving
It is up to the male to know the difference..otherwise he will never be able to lead..but always follow...ie..his private parts verses the head on his
edit on 11-12-2014 by orangetom1999 because: (no reason given)