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Originally posted by Tw0Sides
reply to post by Agit8dChop
How bout we look at this another way.
A Child that has TWO Parents that Love him... How can that be a Bad thing.
Originally posted by ColoradoJens
reply to post by CJCrawley
You don't think maybe your nursing buddy discovered he was gay when he came into puberty and for the first time in his life had sexual urges? How many second graders are getting laid these days?
CJ
Originally posted by steve95988
Originally posted by Tw0Sides
reply to post by Agit8dChop
How bout we look at this another way.
A Child that has TWO Parents that Love him... How can that be a Bad thing.
its called morals,,, not based on the bible but in human life... gays are not an acceptable nature act...
if anything it is a mental disorder and needs to be dealt with accordingly
Originally posted by Tw0Sides
reply to post by Agit8dChop
How bout we look at this another way.
A Child that has TWO Parents that Love him... How can that be a Bad thing.
Originally posted by Agit8dChop
reply to post by Darth_Prime
I don't think you were born homosexual, how that is offensive I do not know.
Whats the big issue with someone coming to the understanding they are gay and prefer life that way?
When you were a child, were you homosexual or were you a child? you didn't even have the comprehension of sexuality when watching cartoons.
I know people like to claim they are something to fit in or perhaps better their side to an argument.
I wasn't born straight I was born a baby with a penis. I grew up and found out that straight was what i wanted and that females were what i was attracted too.
There's no proof or scientific evidence suggesting your born gay/straight.
Respect to you for being open about it and hey if it makes you happy dude / chick im all happy for you. Go life right...
.. but this ''fact'' that people are born gay or straight is nonsense, in my personal opinion.edit on 7-6-2013 by Agit8dChop because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by tovenar
Back before the coup at the American Psychological Association in 1978, the APA still allowed research into the 'causes' of homosexuality. (no research can be done now; you lose your career for even suggesting that gay is a choice.)
The experience and research from most psychologists back then was that gay men often had an emotionally absent father and a domineering mother. Lesbians were supposed to have a similar difficulty connecting emotionally with their mothers.
Back then, no psychologist believed that gays were "born that way." They would have been shocked at the idea that a complex constellation of traits such as sexuality was magically pre-determined, and totally unalterable.
But if it is pre-determined, what ELSE is? What other complex constructs are predetermined? Your politics? Your religion? Your college major?
What is attractive to you may feel automatic. What you do about that attraction is always a choice.
And what about bi-sexuals? Are they born in the middle? If there IS a middle, that sounds a lot more like a continuum than a genetic switch that got flipped. And with most continua, you move up and down them throughout the course of your life.
Cerebral responses to putative pheromones and objects of sexual attraction were recently found to differ between homo- and heterosexual subjects.
Heterosexual Men and Homosexual Women showed a rightward cerebral asymmetry, whereas volumes of the cerebral hemispheres were symmetrical in Homosexual Men and Heterosexual Women.
The results cannot be primarily ascribed to learned effects, and they suggest a linkage to neurobiological entities.
Originally posted by wiser3
reply to post by CJCrawley
I am now 54, I knew before I was a teenager that I was "different" to my "straight" brother (I also have a "straight" sister), my brother and I were and still are the best of friends and we have moved in the same circles all our lives, same friends, same sports, same parents, same lives and we still do.
I knew at a very young age that I was interested in boys and not girls, I just didn't have a name for what I was. By the time I got to high school, keep in mind that this was around 40 years ago, I knew that I was something that was "unmentionable"! I was "GAY"!
I was born gay and I will die gay! I don't care how many of you shout from the rooftops that people are not born gay, that we choose to be gay, I know that I WAS BORN GAY!