Isn't one of the downsides of a thriving society, a society that evolves and achieves technological break-through that we start taking easy
graticification for granted?
We stop enjoying working hard to get the simple things like doing the dishes... mowing the lawn, etc. etc. Another example would be doing the job of
spending time with ones kids or younger siblings...
think about the reward being their happiness and joy and you knowing that what they may have
learned that day on that playground might stick with them for the rest of their life - and then see if you yourself are smiling, I bet you are
For a long time now, there has been some kind of achievement race going on. Not only amongst governments creating whatever race they wanna call this
and that one. But also a race amongst fellow man. We see the "beautiful rich people" on tv splashing out on a new big house or driving a fancy car
and we go "aw, I want that" because the way it's being portrayed in the tv makes us believe that that is true happiness.
Think about it... tv is a salesperson just like any other, it has to make money through viewer ratings, and they are not gonna get that with a program
that sells pain and suffering.
First thing we have to do is cast away that fear for the world. I'm not asking you to be indifferent to what is going on. Just don't wallow in it
Once you start recognising that there's no need to be affraid, that no God or government is going to make things better for you, then you take away
unnecessary parts of the equation. Once you have no fear, governments or world orders don't have anything to control you with.
After that we have to start asking ourselves NOT "how much do I need to make me happy?" BUT "how little do I have to do to make me happy for what
I've got?"
It could be as little as growing an apple tree in your garden, raising a dog right, finally sorting out that mess that makes up your garage.
It takes SO little... but be aware, that the reward does not come in the form of someone else saying "wow you're cool", it comes from you saying to
yourself "I did it! It took some time... but I did it!". And then remember that other people might not think of that as an achievement, but hey,
that goes both ways. Just be happy for someone being happy
Don't mock the things that give them a better day. But don't praise them either...
praising is for small kids.
The next thing you can do then is stopping appraising people who drive in Ferrarris or own a multimillion dollar house. Be happy for them that they
are happy when they present it to you, but don't praise them... they don't have more than you.
What good is a Ferrarri when you lie in your deathbed? You can't take it with you, nor the vast amount of money that you may have gathered. You can
only depart this place with the knowledge that even though someone tried to break my back, I was able to stand tall and smile, and while doing that...
I had the strength to treat other people right. Equally...
That to me, could be the reward of not living in fear.
[edit on 25/2/08 by flice]
[edit on 25/2/08 by flice]