posted on Apr, 9 2022 @ 10:14 PM
The question is.......what line would one of your siblings have to cross for you to try and leave that sibling nothing even though your sibling is has
the right to equal amount of the assets as you? Also, there was not a will.
I'm going through probate right now and my 2 youngest siblings are trying to do this to me. Their reason is because of the way I've addressed them
in the past.
In the past, word would get back to me that my brother was running his mouth about me, making up lies and trashing me. So I went straight to him and I
was a total a-hole about it. Let him know if he ever has anything to say about me to grow a pair and come to me and say it. He tucked tail everytime
and wouldn't deny it but wouldn't defend himself and then he would block my number and we wouldn't speak for months. I said plenty more.
Now my younger sister has 2 boys who are 3 and 4 years older than my son. At that time my son would constantly talk about his cousins qnd how he
missed them and he just wanted to hang out with them in the worst way. At that point my son had only seen them on the bigger holidays and he just
looked up to both of them. The oldest cousin started picking on my son, just saying really mean things and was a total deek. That really hurt my son
who was 7 and 8 when these incidents took place. I mentioned to my mom what happened and asked her to tell my sister so she could deal with it. It
wasn't much longer and her kid started to be really mean over Xbox when my son tried to join his group or party, they both had headphones on, I heard
my son pleading with his cousin so I listened in. What I heard upset me and again hurt my son. He asked me why his cousins are mad and he started
thinking he did something. This time I messaged my sister and told her about it and asked if she dealt with it after the first time this happened and
I was a little snippy about it. 6 months later, my son saw both cousins at the pool, this time both cousins were ganging up on him and he was scared
this time and he tried to get conversation going so he tried talking about hunting and how he has a bb gun at home he can't wait to hunt with. It's
q legit Red Ryder begun Santa gave him. This time I called my sister cuz I was irate. No answer so I texted her and I went off on her, took shots at
the kind of mother and father they are to ignore the fact that her kids are bullying my son, I got my point across, I'll say that. She messaged me
back and started to blame my sin for what happened and tried to say my son told her kids he was going to shoot them with his bb gun. My son is honest,
I trust him and I know he didn't threaten to shoot them even though I may have understood if he did cuz 2 much larger n older boys were bullying
him. My son is so nice and a total sweetie but I have seen my boy take both of her kids down just playing around wrestling one day. My son is big
strong dude too.
These are the reasons my siblings have colluded to try and take the things my parents wanted me to have. A year ago my parents came to me with their
will and let me know I'm power of attorney over EVERYTHING when they're gone. I saw the will, saw what they wanted us kids to get, I wasn't real
surprised cuz we all kind of knew. They told me my name is NOT TO BE CHANGED no matter what! My dad said That's right and agreed. My father's
quality to speak was limited the last cpl yrs of his life. So he did say all he had to do is drop the will off and sign it at the lawyers office and
said he will do it Thursday when he goes to get water. They also told me to keep this information to myself and do not say anything to the others. I
didn't really think about it but little did I know, 5 and a half months later my parents would be hospitalized cuz of covid and in November 2021 they
died 17 days apart.
I want to add that I was the only sibling who was taking care of them and doing things like drive them to Dr appointments, pick up meds. Cook for
them, blow snow, mow yard, anything that was hard for them I took care of. I also spent alot of time just enjoying my parents because I knew one day
they'd be gone. Then just like that. My other siblings WOULD NEVER go visit and when they did it was for 2 minutes, they wouldn't even sit down.
They ignored my mom when she tried talking to them on messenger because she was hard of hearing texting was easier for her. But they would reply q day
or two later, they didn't call, my siblings did not give a you know what about them. They never really go out of their way to see me either and we
all live in the same area.
So my mom was hospitalized first, then my dad was like 8 days after her. Me and my mom showed covid symptoms the same day so I wasn't able to go to
their house, my mom tried to hide the fact that she wasn't feeling well, I felt crappy and she was worried about me. But my siblings waited for a
week before my bro just happened to stop there and mom was in bed and her body hurt, she didn't feel well. So my brother immediately called an
ambulance. I was worried for her but my sister didn't feel like she needed to be around so she went out of town 3 hours away to a wine tasting
festival all weekend. My dad was home alone and he was falling almost everyday, like fall all the way across a room into the couch. Sometimes he
couldn't get up by himself. So I got on my sisters case about not being there to help. I was still in quarantine and my brother, he groaned and made
excuses why he couldn't be with dad throughout the night and take care of him until I'm done in quarantine. He stayed one night, left the next
morning, go back see if he's OK, leave. This went on until I could go there. My sister was on her last day having fun n I had her on the phone again
giving her hell. I was on my way to my dad's and she said, "You know what? Soon you aren't going to have "poop" and what she meant was I wasn't
going to get any inheritance. I said "How do you figure? I'm power of attorney over EVERYTHING." and she said "That wouldn't be hard to change."
I then hung up. I got to my dad's and complained to my bro about our sister and told him what she said. He started having an attitude with me and
groaning about having to take care of our dad and was just a d**k. So right there I said something about how he should actually care about the family
and I ended up telling him mom n dad made me power of attorney over everything. His face turned red and he got real made came at me and pushed me and
pinned me against the wall in front of our dad. He left bruises. But he stormed out and left me to watch my dad for the next week. I could not be
there constantly but I was popping in every few hours, my sister stopped a cpl times. Found him laying in the basement on the floor not able to get
up. The next day I found him in his room struggling to get up. He fell alot but he had no real medical issues and we didn't think covid would take
him out. My sister showed up one morning at my dad's before I got there, with her husband. The power of attorney was brought up I'm guessing and
they found out our dad totally forgot to bring that will to the lawyer. She was there and would have pressured my dad to have the lawyer change my
name even if my dad had dropped it off. But my sister got ahold of the will, not sure how it all went about but she got my dad to say that she was
power of attorney but not over everything. After she did that she and her husband took him and dumped him at the hospital.......