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Why do beautiful woman date total jerks?

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posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 01:59 PM
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a reply to: JourneymanWelder

No need to become a total jerk, just act like one.

Relationships spawned from such encounters never go far anyways tbh. If it's not a relationship you're wanting then do a bit bar hopping...

Or visit a lady of the night?

I'm kidding of course but with that said, could work out cheaper buying a few drinks or, ya know?

Seriously though, get yourself out their. It's not nice guys or bad guys women tend to look for, they want interesting and confident. To be challenged and excited. Their isn't an instruction manual for women, they have different buttons... That's the fun in dating, finding them buttons.

Not all women are alike.

Right now you're just putting yourself down though, to be blunt, it isn't attractive.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:00 PM
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Why do beautiful woman date total jerks?




Women don't like being put on a pedestal.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:04 PM
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a reply to: JourneymanWelder


Because some of us have well-paying jobs and are good in bed.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:05 PM
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a reply to: JourneymanWelder

Did it occur to you that the 'beautiful woman' is probably a jerk too? Just because she's 'beautiful' doesn't mean she's not a shallow, snobby, rude piece of crap.

^ This of course describes about 99.95% of humanity though so good luck.










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posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:05 PM
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originally posted by: RAY1990
Right now you're just putting yourself down though, to be blunt, it isn't attractive.

Agreed.
It is not a good look for one who wishes to attract a mate.
Nobody wants a victim.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:06 PM
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a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

Playaaaaar!



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:06 PM
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originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
Nobody wants a victim.


I like victims.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:08 PM
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originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
Nobody wants a victim.


I like victims.


So that is why you love yourself so much^^.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:10 PM
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originally posted by: Wide-Eyes
So that is why you love yourself so much^^.


I can't stand me and if you knew me too you'd feel the same way.




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posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:11 PM
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I was assuming the OP was male and women who don't usually like 'woe is me' male victims.
Anything like that gets my spidey senses going, thinking of MGTOW type folk. [/shudder]



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:12 PM
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a reply to: JourneymanWelder

good in the sack, easy on the eyes and can take em to dinner?
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posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:12 PM
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it isnt about women or men. it happens so because the angels pick that way from among men and women to make couples, so that the balance of the world isnt disturbed.
"one good,one bad"
"one good,one bad"
"one good, one bad"
...
..

that is how they make the couples..sometimes, woman is bad, other sometimes man.

but once in a long while angels cheat and they make it

"one good, one good"


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posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:13 PM
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originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
I was assuming the OP was male and women who don't usually like 'woe is me' male victims.
Anything like that gets my spidey senses going, thinking of MGTOW type folk. [/shudder]


Women don't like panty waists. They want a man to sweep them off their feet and stuff them in the trunk.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:13 PM
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If you feel like you need to be a jerk just to be in a relationship, you probably shouldn't be in one.

Compromising is one thing, but if you're trying to be something you're not, that says more about you than it does them.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:13 PM
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originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: Wide-Eyes
So that is why you love yourself so much^^.


I can't stand me and if you knew me too you'd feel the same way.





Well I don't know you but I love you all the same.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:14 PM
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originally posted by: JourneymanWelder
Im sorry I wont do it I wont become a total jerk just so I can have a girlfriend. Time and time again women will always date the bad boy over the nice guy that has his life together and actually has a career. Why? you cant change the player. you cant fix him and make him a good boy. And nothing needs changing on the nice guy... I just dont get it. I guess Im doomed to be alone because Im too damn nice.


Tell me about it!

Whatever she wants, I don't got it: money, prison tattoos, anger problems, meth pipe.

I have nothing to offer women around here!





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posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:15 PM
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a reply to: knowledgehunter0986

Jerks aren't interested in relationships. They're interested in sex. That is all.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:17 PM
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a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

My wife told me of I ever tried to:"stuff her in the trunk" again itd be my funeral



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:19 PM
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Boot not Trunk, but I get ya.
Boring blokes will always struggle in their female partner pursuits.
Join a chess club, world of warcraft whatever is not a transferrable skill to dating lol
I love my friends with benefits thing, bottles of wine, nice food, company in an intimate way, but no expectation of looking at fabrics and furniture bull# on a sunday afternoon. Someone special needs to hook me for that.



posted on Sep, 10 2018 @ 02:21 PM
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Take it from me, put a sock in your pants like I do, but make sure that YOU put YOURS in the front.



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