Why do beautiful woman date total jerks?

a reply to: JourneymanWelder

I think Sheldon Cooper summed it up best, "Bitches be crazy".
you are welcome. Need anything else?

originally posted by: Allaroundyou
a reply to: surfer_soul

Are you a woman or Dude?

This users issue is an easy one to fix. If you look at it from a being single standpoint. After that I am out.

Come on it’s 2018 and I don’t identify as a gender! You’re so behind the times. )

It’s not easy to fix, him acting like jerk won’t fix it that’s for sure. No if he wants someone who he desires and respects then he has to become desirable and respect himself, that takes work. But you gain confidence along the way and women like that too.

a reply to: JourneymanWelder

now lets come to your question.

you are handsome or pl3asant to her eyes
you dont smell bad to her even when you stink
when you eat you look good to her even if you may not to others
you arent in depression
you like your job
you trust her, you dont waste her for silly things and you know the rules of a good argument and you arent scared of arguement because you trust her
you have problem solving skills

you are a nice guy.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: Wide-Eyes
So that is why you love yourself so much^^.

I can't stand me and if you knew me too you'd feel the same way.

Like I said, victim.

originally posted by: JourneymanWelder
Im sorry I wont do it I wont become a total jerk just so I can have a girlfriend. Time and time again women will always date the bad boy over the nice guy that has his life together and actually has a career. Why? you cant change the player. you cant fix him and make him a good boy. And nothing needs changing on the nice guy... I just dont get it. I guess Im doomed to be alone because Im too damn nice.

If other guys are being jerks, do you “put them in their place?”

If yes: How?

If not: Why not?

originally posted by: Damla
a reply to: JourneymanWelder

now lets come to your question.

you are handsome or pl3asant to her eyes
you dont smell bad to her even when you stink
when you eat you look good to her even if you may not to others
you arent in depression
you like your job
you trust her, you dont waste her for silly things and you know the rules of a good argument and you arent scared of arguement because you trust her
you have problem solving skills

you are a nice guy.

Awesome post.

Well said.

originally posted by: Damla
a reply to: JourneymanWelder

now lets come to your question.

you are handsome or pl3asant to her eyes
you dont smell bad to her even when you stink
when you eat you look good to her even if you may not to others
you arent in depression
you like your job
you trust her, you dont waste her for silly things and you know the rules of a good argument and you arent scared of arguement because you trust her
you have problem solving skills

you are a nice guy.

I find your posts so friggin' confusing. I'm playing a little game now to see if your posts actually make sense or if it's just another can of alphabet soup

a reply to: NarcolepticBuddha

I'm pretty sure English isn't her first language.

The post made sense to me.

originally posted by: JourneymanWelder
Im sorry I wont do it I wont become a total jerk just so I can have a girlfriend. Time and time again women will always date the bad boy over the nice guy that has his life together and actually has a career. Why? you cant change the player. you cant fix him and make him a good boy. And nothing needs changing on the nice guy... I just dont get it. I guess Im doomed to be alone because Im too damn nice.

Best advice I can offer...
NEVER...under ANY circumstances...let any woman you would like to date...see this OP.

a reply to: Wide-Eyes
Lol some blokes will never reach such a standard. It explains the lower end of the market, like buying cars. There is always a market.
This Op is like someone moaning that they can't afford a Mercedes.

originally posted by: recrisp
a reply to: JourneymanWelder
Take it from me, put a sock in your pants like I do, but make sure that YOU put YOURS it in the front.

Nice one lol I’m stealing that.

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originally posted by: Wide-Eyes
a reply to: NarcolepticBuddha

I'm pretty sure English isn't her first language.

The post made sense to me.

It's all non-sequitur clauses to me.

Oh well, I digress. But should I act like a jerk about it or like a nice guy?



(btw left you a pm.)

a reply to: CornishCeltGuy

Exactly. Apologise when you're wrong but otherwise, stand your ground.

That goes for all aspects of life.

originally posted by: KTemplar
a reply to: JourneymanWelder


A lot of woman really are attracted to those types because they usually go for a confident male. They forget to look at all aspects of the man sadly and end up with those types til they get sick of it and realize the nice guys are awesome!

Yes they finally grow up.

originally posted by: NarcolepticBuddha

originally posted by: Wide-Eyes
a reply to: NarcolepticBuddha

I'm pretty sure English isn't her first language.

The post made sense to me.

It's all non-sequitur clauses to me.

Oh well, I digress. But should I act like a jerk about it or like a nice guy?

(btw left you a pm.)

Love is in the eye of the beholder, sometimes we see things in others that just don't make sense to others.

I've played both sides of the coin, been a Cowboy and then a Gentlemen. There is no difference, if its True Love, it will last but you gotta play the game to find out.

a reply to: mfourl

i agree.
sometimes women can love real bad examples that others will say wtf why is she wasting time with this garbage..but it is all for selfish reasons they do that.

a reply to: NarcolepticBuddha

reading my last post again...probably alphabet soup.

a reply to: Damla
That is the beauty of human relationships though.
I have # friends, love friends, and spending time together friends. The way I see it the whole 'dating' thing as a route has died out.
Depends on what you wanna get up to together.
There are no rules, and anyone who says there are is just a despot in my opinion.

a reply to: JourneymanWelder

I will give you 3 reasons.

1. Women have been programmed to believe that money is important enough to marry for. So if the jerk has money that would be a reason.

2. Women have been programmed to believe the "bad guy" is somehow more sexually desirable.

3. Women have a natural inclination to nurturing so they may desire someone they can fix.

The first two are culture and media and not something natural to the femal mind IMO. The third is mostly just naivete that most women grow out of.