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The NYCHRL [New York City Human Rights Law] requires employers[, landlords, and all businesses and professionals] to use an [employee’s, tenant’s, customer’s, or client’s] preferred name, pronoun and title (e.g., Ms./Mrs.) regardless of the individual’s sex assigned at birth, anatomy, gender, medical history, appearance, or the sex indicated on the individual’s identification.
Most individuals and many transgender people use female or male pronouns and titles. Some transgender and gender non-conforming people prefer to use pronouns other than he/him/his or she/her/hers, such as they/them/theirs or ze/hir. [Footnote: Ze and hir are popular gender-free pronouns preferred by some transgender and/or gender non-conforming individuals.] …
originally posted by: Cobaltic1978
Oi works most of the time.
originally posted by: Hazardous1408
I'm not gonna bother learning all that.
He or she from me.
originally posted by: ColdWisdom
Here is how it works for me:
If you have a penis, I'll call you sir.
If you have a vagina, I'll call you mam.
It doesn't matter to me when you got your penis or vagina, only what sexual organs you have in the moment that I am addressing you.
originally posted by: lovebeck
I thought this would be a post from another country, but nope. It's the good ol US of A.
With that said, my preferred pronoun is she/her.
And I fully expect to be addressed by my title: Lovebeck Queen of Awesomeness.