posted on Oct, 11 2013 @ 10:24 AM
I have been a little perplexed lately with an issue I am having. It is a two folded issue and was hoping someone here could help me solve the dilemma.
Firstly, my husband has a friend that comes over every once in awhile and visits. For some reason, whenever he does, I feel sick to my stomach and get
really bad headaches. The guy is not a bad person, he is really nice and I feel bad, but most of the time, I just have to leave the house or go to my
bedroom to get away from him. I have no idea why and it is starting to cause issues with my husband and me because he wants to go to dinner and hang
out with the guy and his wife, but I physically cannot stand to be around him. (I also get depressed and grumpy for the rest of the day.)
The second issue is that two times so far after his visits, I get in my car to go to work the next day and find the seat has been moved. I cannot
drive my car when it is set to my husband’s seat setting. It is too far back for me to reach the pedals. When I ask my husband if he had driven my
car somewhere, he says no. Recently, after his friend visited, my husband and I went to bed at the same time. I got up the next morning and the seat
was moved. It doesn’t make sense. There is a third person in the house, my daughter, but she is even shorter than me, so, if anything, the seat
would be moved closer to the console than farther away if she was messing with it.
My husband wouldn’t let him take/get into/ or mess with my car at all. And he would tell me if he did so, it wouldn’t be anything he would need to
lie about. So, how does that happen? Anyone have any idea what is going on?
I don’t know for sure if the two things are related, I am starting to notate date and times that both occur. It has only happened three times so
far. But I have only been around the guy four times total. The rest of time he hangs out with my husband when I’m not there.
Just looking to get pointed in the right direction and see if anything like this has happened to anyone else.