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Tusks
Sexual deviants and dopers can give off those bad vibes. I would not want the guy to be alone with either your husband or your daughter. Something is probably going on in your car--dope or sex being the most likely. Set up a trail camera that works on motion detection. Leave a window down. Unobtrusively keep an eye on him every so often when he visits.
blend57
reply to post by Char-Lee
My daughter is eighteen and in college. She has not and never will be around him by herself. My husband and I have never left and would never leave our daughter alone with any of our friends. Just a rule we made when she was younger to keep her safe. I know, I'm overly protective, but what can I say?
My husband says he never got into the car and denies taking it anywhere. So, it's not him.
Thanks,
Blend57
TDawgRex
reply to post by Char-Lee
You'd hate me as I can be brutally honest. If you ask me if that outfit makes you look fat, I might honestly say yes, it does.
Of course, we all know what follows.
And as I run out the door.
Crap! I knew I should have hid that gun better.
blend57
reply to post by Char-Lee
That is a horrible and very sad situation you have lived through. I hope you have moved on and now are living a life that is a happy and healthy one.
As I said, I am open to everything/anything at the moment. And although it would tear me apart, I have considered afairs and things like that as well. But, I cannot justify or have no reason to believe that that is happening for now. And I have to trust in our relationship and him until I am shown something else.
Thanks for the response, and again, I am sorry you went through that.
Thanks,
Blend57
3) is he abnormally gregarious? Does he seem to get along with everyone in his presence, yet outside his presence, some confess he's a bit odd/they're a bit uncomfortable? Also, does he get his way on topics of choice often?
new_here
reply to post by AsarAlubat
Wow, share with the group!
Or, AsarAlubat may have the answer... curious to know what you found out, AA!
blend57
reply to post by Rosinitiate
I know, the bunny is constantly tortured.
I never thought about the empath thing, how do I fix it? Is there anything I can do to make it stop so I can be around him?
Thanks,
Blend57