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TDawgRex
reply to post by Char-Lee
One of the things that I have found in life life is that if you are always looking for lies, you will find them. At some point you must trust.
But verify.
What a web we weave, eh?
blend57
reply to post by aptrgangr
3) is he abnormally gregarious? Does he seem to get along with everyone in his presence, yet outside his presence, some confess he's a bit odd/they're a bit uncomfortable? Also, does he get his way on topics of choice often?
Pretty sure it won't help the situation, but I'm going to have to give him some reason why I won't "hang" with him and his friend pretty soon, or he is going to be carrying around some resentment towards me.
Thanks,
Blend57
(your a secret agent, aren't you )
reply to post by schuyler
Unfortunately, at this point you are reacting to your reaction, i.e.: You can't get back to "square one" with this guy because of your past reactions. But bear in mind that he has (apparently) done nothing wrong, so it is you who are responsible for your reaction, not him. There's nothing he can do. So you need to find a way to deescalate the situation yourself.
reply to post by geobro
My daughter (who has been around him more than me) Just said that our dog doesn't like to be around him. She barked at him only once, but she kind of backs away from him and doesn't really like to be next to him. Thats the only info I have regarding our pet acting weird, as I haven't been able to interact with him when he comes over.
Char-Lee
reply to post by blend57
In my experience, I find that when this happens it is because you are fighting inside to not know something you already know, it is just to much for you to let into your conscious mind.
You are not me but this is what I have learned about myself and at this point after learning to well, I would watch, snoop, listen and see all I can of this man until I find out what is wrong. He is around your family, every monster seems to be a nice person so don't go by that.
Is there any mental component to the physical reaction you have? How old is your daughter?
The car seat could be related if this man is getting in the car to talk or hang out where they can be private with either your child or your husband?
The answer will not be on here but with you as we are all very different people in our experiences.edit on 11-10-2013 by Char-Lee because: (no reason given)