reply to post by votan
A homosexual is a person with a sexual or romantic attraction to the same sex.
Whether that attraction is acted upon or not, it is known to the homosexual.
Homosexuality hasn't been considered a pathology in itself by Psychiatric Associations since the 1970s.
Pedophilia is the attraction of a person 16 or older to children 11 years or younger (and even here there are subsets of age, too sickening to
describe).
A gray area seems to exist for some around puberty.
Pederasty is the love of pubescent males aged 12-17.
This was the form common in the ancient Greek states, although it was not necessarily sexual (it could be "Platonic") and was also seen as a teaching
relationship facilitating manners, poetics, relations with women and warrior skills.
These relationships usually ended in some Greek city states when men left the warrior class to marry (aged 30).
Life-long egalitarian homosexuality did apparently exist, and was not illegal, although the partners might have been mocked, since they were lowering
themselves to the position of wives, boys or slaves.
However, it should be remembered that life-spans were probably shorter in general, and that girls were considered eligible for marriage by
heterosexual men at 12 (according to canon law since the 12th century, although consent could be recognized as young as 7).
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This continued in Britain and the US until the late 1880s.
The movement to raise the age of female consent from 12 to 16, and then 18 was probably one of the first "feminist" projects.
Although most states did up the female age of consent to 16 in the 20th century, there were several loopholes in some states, such as Romeo and Juliet
laws (tolerance for the male to sleep with or marry a girl within a four year age difference) and various parental and state laws that still allowed
"child-brides" into the 1970s.
Jerry Lee Lewis, for example, married his cousin of 13 in 1958 (which didn't raise many eyebrows in the US, but it caused a scandal in the UK).
The early gay movement saw this as hypocrisy, when the gay age of consent was often 21.
Same in SA until 1994: you could be conscripted and die for country at 17, but you couldn't have a boyfriend!
This inequality allowed pederast organizations like Nambla to attach itself to the gay movement in the 1970s.
However, as states increasingly closed such loopholes for heterosexuals and equalized ages of consent, the gay and lesbian movements began to distance
themselves from Nambla.
Since 1979 they were increasingly kicked out of gay parades.
The age of consent debate will still rage across cultures for decades to come.
Some see the Western ages of consent as an imposition on their customs.
In the reality TV program
The American Gypsies, for example, some openly admit that both male and female partners may marry well below the
legal age of consent, and such laws don't apply in traditional Roma culture.
In rural SA a custom called the "ukutwala" allows a much older man to pay a bride price and then to simply kidnap a girl as young as 12.
Shockingly to gender activists, the parents and sometimes the local police and ministers are in agreement with the custom.
The abuse of children and young people is a social evil that shouldn't be tolerated in gay or straight society.
These impositions in a young person's development and education could destroy their potential forever.
Unfortunately, one only needs to look at sites like the Cult News Network daily to see that religious groups across the spectrum still have
unacceptable levels of sexual child abuse.
Many cults seem to exist simply to groom girls for older men, and some even claim to find Old Testament validation for such practices.
Neither are they limited to one religion, and child-brides have also been issues in ISKCON or Islamic groups.
Luckily my attraction is to men my own age, or even older.
I cannot say how pederasts and pedophiles feel.
If it was legal I'd hang pedophiles high.
At least for pedophiles there is often a lower IQ and other mental conditions.
It's true to say that homosexuality often took its cue from heterosexuality in such customs.
I'd hate to see "ancient Greece" brought back in such matters, because their patriarchal citizens could abuse their power over slaves, women and
younger men, and this is what the egalitarian gender movement wants to prevent.
As for polygamous marriage - it is legal in South Africa under the customary marriages act.
In fact, our Zulu President, Jacob Zuma, has married 6 times and has 4 current wives.
We've had gay marriage since 2006, and all the conditions of the previous marriage act apply: there can be only two currently unmarried partners who
must be 18 or older, they may not be directly related or related to the previous spouse.
Polygamy - although debatably waning - is one point where heterosexual African culture would never compromise with imposed standards.
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