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Originally posted by seeker1963
reply to post by liam8126
Help yourself either by getting out the house or by getting out of the house.........
It is very difficult to change how anyone thinks! Most people who change do it because of their own experiences and wanting to change.
Your in a bad situation and you need to help yourself instead of worrying about changing someone else......
Originally posted by PurpleVortex
Brother...no need to change anyone for you wouldn't want anyone to change you.
The solution to your problem is *Compassion*
We always want others to change for the better of the whole. That's the issue of OUR world, not just in your family.
Learn to Compromise
Relationships ONLY work out when one or both parties are willling to compromise and make things work. That's a healthy relationship.
Love your father UNconditionally, no MATTER what and you would win his love for you, unconditionally.
When you change yourself from within, you change your envirenment and vice versa.
One prerequisite to being on the path of spirituality is that you treat and see everyone as yourself. Now, next time you want to respond to your father, know that you will be responding to yourself whether kindly or otherwise.
“When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished by how much he'd learned in seven years.”
Originally posted by PurpleVortex
The solution to your problem is *Compassion*
....
Love your father UNconditionally, no MATTER what and you would win his love for you, unconditionally.
Originally posted by liam8126
Originally posted by PurpleVortex
Brother...no need to change anyone for you wouldn't want anyone to change you.
The solution to your problem is *Compassion*
We always want others to change for the better of the whole. That's the issue of OUR world, not just in your family.
Learn to Compromise
Relationships ONLY work out when one or both parties are willling to compromise and make things work. That's a healthy relationship.
Love your father UNconditionally, no MATTER what and you would win his love for you, unconditionally.
When you change yourself from within, you change your envirenment and vice versa.
One prerequisite to being on the path of spirituality is that you treat and see everyone as yourself. Now, next time you want to respond to your father, know that you will be responding to yourself whether kindly or otherwise.
So even if i disagree with him i should just agree?
Originally posted by liam8126
Originally posted by seeker1963
reply to post by liam8126
Help yourself either by getting out the house or by getting out of the house.........
It is very difficult to change how anyone thinks! Most people who change do it because of their own experiences and wanting to change.
Your in a bad situation and you need to help yourself instead of worrying about changing someone else......
Im only 16 I cant get out . Im maybe thinking of just saying your right to everything he says.