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Originally posted by SearchLightsInc
Originally posted by Socrato
No one would argue that a woman has a right to her body, but when she agreed to have sex with a man she agreed to risk getting pregnant.
In the age of the 21st century, risk of pregnancy in the fist world isnt as high as what it was. We've has such a thing as the sexual revolution in which women could embrace their bodies and sexual needs without constant threat of pregnancy. When she agree'd to have sex its very unlikely she was agreeing to risk pregnancy, she was more than likely agreeing to show physical affection to another human being - Yano, like were suppose to. If you only have sex to procreate then i feel sorry for you.
A baby is a separate entity which is NOT the woman's body.
That "baby" cannot survive without the woman's body, so by rights, she's laying down the law here, not the father and not the "baby"
It is a new body created by the man AND woman.
A man jacked off and he's got bragging rights for doing Sweet F.A for 9 months? NOPE. Its in her body and if she doesn't want it then like i say, TOUGH LUCK. Perhaps god should have given you a vagina?
Yes it happens to reside inside the woman's body
Its not coincidental my love, there's probably a good reason why dont have the capacity to give birth. Her body, her choice.
Originally posted by FlyersFan
So ... a man only has rights and obligations to his children if ...
- the children are born and in need of money.
- the pregnant woman says she is keeping the baby and needs financial support from the man.
So to the men out there .... don't get a woman pregnant unless you are prepared to give up your parental rights.
Also, don't get a woman pregnant unless you are prepared to give up your money to support the child if the mother decides not to kill the child in the womb.
Bottom line ... be careful with your 'special men' .... (hit tip to 'That 70s Show')
cool, so we can abort up to, what.. The age of 9? Wen can a child survive on its own? My 19 month old is a pain.. Should I just do what the op said and "nip it in butt?" or "bud".
Originally posted by PsykoOps
Op is absolutely right. Not sure where the law says is the last change to abort but the fact of the matter is that a baby is not a living being untill it can survive on it's own.
Originally posted by Socrato
"You dont have rights over someone else's body."
Oh I forgot a baby isn't someone else.
Originally posted by Myendica
cool, so we can abort up to, what.. The age of 9? Wen can a child survive on its own?
Originally posted by PsykoOps
Op is absolutely right. Not sure where the law says is the last change to abort but the fact of the matter is that a baby is not a living being untill it can survive on it's own.
Originally posted by Socrato
Then this woman is an idiot. Everyone knows that having sex means you are risking making a baby. If she is too childish to handle that then she is not mature enough for sex.edit on 26-8-2012 by Socrato because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Myendica
Cause all isms are bad. Feminism.. Racism.
Im not saying a women cant have an abortion, but the op is on awitch hunt to prove she can keep here ego intact with such one sided view ism.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
reply to post by Socrato
Originally posted by Socrato
Oh and stop sleeping around too.
Oh! We hit the jackpot!
If a man and a woman have consensual sex and a pregnancy results, the man gets "cheated" out of his choice and the woman's a whore. The man becomes the victim and the woman is "sleeping around"...
You know why men get so frustrated with their lack of control over women and their bodies? Because many men HATE feminism. They've done all they can to oppress the women's independence. They intend to keep us from rising up, by any means necessary, including calling us such names as "feminazis", selfish and whores and making laws against our autonomy.
Their mindset is that as long as a woman has sex because she wants to procreate, we can allow that, but if she has sex for her own pleasure, and gets pregnant, then she's a worthless whore who is "sleeping around".
If a woman deigns to have sex for any other reason than to serve the family (procreate) she should be punished for being selfish and promiscuous.
I hear these men say that if a woman doesn't want to get pregnant, she shouldn't have sex. My question is if men are so concerned about the possibility of a unwanted pregnancy, why don't THEY quit having sex? Why don't THEY atop "sleeping around" like whores? If they're so concerned about creating an unwanted child, and having a "say" in abortion, why don't THEY guarantee that the woman doesn't get pregnant by refusing to have sex with her? That's what they expect of us. Why don't they ask the same of themselves?
Originally posted by ollncasino
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
Wife whose husband became secret sperm donor calls for change in the law to require partners' consent
The wife of a man who donated his sperm without her knowledge is campaigning for married men to require their spouse's consent for the process.
She argues that in married relationships, sperm donation should be a decision both parties are involved in; she says in marriage, sperm should be considered some kind of 'marital asset'.
Daily Mail
The irony, the double standards
Originally posted by torque
Women should be responsible for their birth control if they really want to be in charge of their body. Don't want to carry/give birth? Don't get pregnant. The woman has complete control over the situation before the clothes even come off.
Originally posted by Jepic
Both parties should only have sex if they have accepted the fact that there is a risk that she will get pregnant and also accepted the fact that they have to take accountability if the worst case scenario arises out of casual sex.
but you dont have a right to force another human being against her will to bring the child to term.
Originally posted by Socrato
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
"In that 9 month period men dont really do much, dont take more credit than you should."
Have you ever been a man and taken care of a pregnant woman? Then you don't know what you're talking about.