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Usually I take her in the men's bathroom if it's empty but it was occupied and she had to go NOW. So off she went to the restroom and within a minute or so in walked a male transsexual, very obvious one at that, (I won't go into details) and right into the woman's bathroom
Originally posted by Lucid Lunacy
I want to say you can't until you go through the operation... but that feels wrong
Originally posted by tothetenthpower
reply to post by smyleegrl
Remember that kids aren't born with hate in their hearts or prejudice, that's something they learn along the way from the people around them. I've recently had to sit my son down and really make him think hard about how he's been treating people.
He's become beligerant and rude and we don't put up with that in our house. Once he really understood how it felt to be treated that way, to be brought down to his level, he's now getting better at it.
As long as you and your better half don't teach him these things, most of the time he'll take a very balanced approach to what he considers normal.
~Tenth
Originally posted by Sulie
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Originally posted by smyleegrl
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So just a few posts after you mention that all we need is love, you're accusing someone of egotism? Interesting.
His experiences as a gay parent are very relevant to this thread, and much appreciated.
No, don't you see it? This person is proud of raising his child in a non-traditional family setting, and when I mentioned the use of tampons and instructing a child how to use them, got defensive.
That's not my bag, to insult, but if a person is so self centered to say they raised a child, out of a homosexual relationship. and didn't think that would come up, for themselves to explain while raising a child, I think it's damn selfish. As a parent, one should be able to figure out how to explain that to a child, through love. If the parent raises a child it should come from them, not a relative or friend,
To raise a child takes planning on the part of a parent, not some outside source. There was no love given to this child from a parent in regards on how to insert a tampon.
Originally posted by smyleegrl
But today, I had to confront a very difficult question. Am I a hypocrite? I think the answer is…..yes.
Originally posted by ollncasino
Why wouldn't a mother want her son to meet a nice girl, get married and produce some grandchildren?
Being accepting of homosexuality does not mean that a parent is indifferent to whether a son is homosexual or not.
Not very politically correct, I know (its not the people I dislike, it's their actions).
Originally posted by Lucid Lunacy
There were a large group of male transexuals. They identified as women but had not gone through sex change operations. Did I use the term correctly anyone?
Originally posted by Thescripter
What's to stop a weirdo perv male to just walk into a woman's bathroom and if confronted say he identifies as a woman.
Originally posted by Pinke
Even just with homosexuality .... I can understand that, whilst having nothing against it, you might wish your child to be one of the majority. I honestly imagine that very few people, even gay people, would ever want a child to have to go through something that makes their lives more complex and sometimes that's even just being exposed to some of the complexity and hurdles that life brings later.
If parents are truly scared about the inequality their children could face if they happen to prefer members of the same sex, they should be joining in and fighting the prejudice, not bowing to it and feeling powerless or confused about it.
Originally posted by MountainLaurel
Have been reading this thread and I agree with others that have said putting a sexual reference, especially a gay sexual reference, was not appropriate in a childrens movie....it would have shocked me too.
LOL....I had to laugh though and reply to some saying a woman is needed to teach a girl about tampons.....I noticed one day my daughter had switched from pads to tampons, and I asked her "how did you learn how to use them"...lol....it was an ordeal when I learned......anyways, she looks at me and says......."I read the instructions in the box".......