And the Plot Thickens. Is not joining Facebook a sign you're a psychopath? , page 3


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reply posted on 6-8-2012 @ 10:39 PM by bigfatfurrytexan
Originally posted by PaperMetel
i don't use Facebook..BECAUSE employers use it as a reference..along with government..i feel if they want to know about me its extremely rude to avoid the biggest potential source of information..myself..

i also don't tweet or text *to many employers use those to call you into work on your day off..and now you simply cant say you didn't get it because they send text and tweet receipts stating when you got it..i don't blog, in fact the only place you might find me is here..and i don't post here that often either..

i like my privacy.. i also enjoy talking with friends to see how there day was.not reading in some tweet or blog or Facebook site..its called human interaction..and that is something that has become increasingly sparse..

To me people that post there day to day lives are f'ed in the head..and need help.



As an employer, i take issue with this.

While interviewing you cannot ask certain questions, such as age, marital status, if they have kids, etc, etc. Using Facebook is an end around on this (it is EEOC related, so is no joke).

I wonder....has anyone tried suing because they didn't get a job over Facebook? If so, is that different than suing because your prior employer gave you a bad reference (when you get a reference call, you are only supposed to verify that they worked there, their last day worked, and their final position....anything else can get you sued for costing a potential job).

A former HR Mgr was wanting to fire a girl for something they said on MySpace (way back in the day). Eventually we ended up firing her (she released private company information about our client)....and our legal team signed off on that. But that is different.

What you are talking about is, in essense, snooping for gossip and other utterances taken wholly out of context.

Then again.....if you are unstable enough to put some of the crap I have seen on Failbook on your FB......


reply posted on 6-8-2012 @ 10:43 PM by Hefficide
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One of my relatives was denied a positon in a large corporation due to her Facebook page. The specific issue cited in their denial was that the Facebook page suggested a "modality of living that was inconsistent with company image standards"

So there's always a fall-back, empty excuse. This relative had one or two pictures from a beach vacation - in a swimsuit... and one picture taken at a pub with a beer in her hand.
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reply posted on 6-8-2012 @ 10:54 PM by bigfatfurrytexan
reply to post by Hefficide



I am a person who has a lot to lose. I have built a decent career for myself by being smart about how i preserve my reputation. I also know how people like to peruse FB (and formerly MySpace) to find things to gossip about.

With my viewpoints, and my tendency to be crusty and cantankerous, it would be a PR nightmare for me to have a FB account.

Then add in my son and all the comments he would leave. Being the biggest/strongest has given him a perspective of "ill speak my mind honestly, and you can suck it" that rears its ugly head from time to time. Could you imagine? (that quote was something he said to a school superior once, followed by a smile and "Ill do what I want, you can keep me from having my baby". He likes to think he is funny).
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reply posted on 6-8-2012 @ 11:37 PM by bitsforbytes
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And what is it you suggest we do? What is fair to you? What are the choices that history has taught us? What do you have to offer if what I said is not just?


reply posted on 7-8-2012 @ 01:14 AM by TerryMcGuire
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I have actually gotten off most social network sites ATS is one of the few I still participate in.

off with his head.


reply posted on 7-8-2012 @ 01:32 AM by mardukiscoming
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Which is why I plan to go off the grid.I know,you think that is impossible today.Not so my friend.Very soon I will be just a memory.No drivers license,no S.S.{well I will still have the number,just won't be needing it}no job.In fact there will be no way to find me at all unless you are part of my very small circle.I have done it before,on a trial run.From summer of '88 to early '91,there is absolutely no record of me anywhere.Only reason it ended is because I made a mistake,resurfaced temporarily,and got caught doing something illegal.Long story short I got put on a government list and was forced to live a "normal" life since then.But soon I will be gone again.I have been planning this for sometime.Of course,you probably don't believe me.Doesn't matter.I know how to disappear.And this time I am not reappearing,ever.Good Day.


reply posted on 7-8-2012 @ 01:56 AM by TDawgRex
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Crikeys!

You just gave up your plan didn't you?

best to rethink your strategy.
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reply posted on 7-8-2012 @ 03:04 AM by mytheroy
Psychologists have noted that Holmes, along with several noted mass murderers, have lacked any real friends. Read more: www.dailymail.co.uk...[/ex



So by not having many friends if at all, I could deemed damaged

I don't have many friends cause they = drama

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