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Yes I have to agree... when I was a small kid I some times played with my sisters dolls and once I even wore her dress and pranced around like a girl. I think at that early age some boys are just really curious about the things girls like. They want to test out their girly toys and act all cute and girlish. They don't yet have a strong understanding of how boys should act at that age, and they don't necessarily have the ability to see anything wrong with a boy liking girl stuff... it's more like "kid stuff" to them rather than boy or girl stuff. When some one has something I don't have I often what do have what they have to see what all the hype is about. I would give him a few more years to grow up a bit more and learn more about the world before you really start to worry about these things, his desires are most likely very shallow ones and not actually deep feelings that he wants to turn into a girl and live the life of a girl.
I had a Princess Play Set when I was little, complete with tiara, fake lipstick and all that, and still turned out quite normal just like any bloke... sort of.
* Girls wear bras and he likes bras
* Mommies are girls and he wants to be a mommy
* Girls are grownups faster (?)
Originally posted by smyleegrl
My son is 6 years old and an only child. He's a typical boy in that he likes to play rough and tumble games, superhero games, etc. However, over the last couple of days he's been doing some things that are troubling me.
He told me it was lipstick and he wanted to wear lipstick.
Now I don't wear makeup, we don't have any lipstick in the house. I explained this to him, asked why he wanted to wear lipstick. He said he wanted to be a girl. This led into a long discussion about why he wanted to be a girl, lots of roundabout answers but here are his main points:
* Girls wear bras and he likes bras
* Mommies are girls and he wants to be a mommy
* Girls are grownups faster (?)
* Some lipsticks are made for boys. Like green lipstick. He wants the boy lipstick.
Okay, so I'm kinda freaked out. Is this normal for a young boy to express these types of desires?
I don't care if my son is bisexual or gay, but I know he's way to young to even begin thinking of sexuality.
As children age, they quickly begin to recognize gender differences and begin to develop their gender identity (the feeling of conviction that they are male or female). For example, a 2-year old boy is able to describe himself as a boy. From there he begins to learn the behaviors expected of him in his culture – his gender role. As he learns and accepts those roles and behaviors, he develops gender role identification. National Health Review
Some differences between homosexual and heterosexual individuals are apparent during childhood. For example, homosexual men and women report having had cross-gender interests (e.g., preferring toys, activities, or clothing typically associated with the opposite sex) during childhood more often than heterosexuals. Children with gender identity disorder (in which a person is dissatisfied and uncomfortable with his or her biological sex) dress and behave in ways that are more typical of the opposite sex. These children are significantly more likely to develop a homosexual orientation than children without the disorder (Bailey & Zucker, 1995; Zucker & Bradley, 1995). Education.com
Originally posted by googolplex
No offence intended, but what's up with your avatar.
I don't get it and then with your Thread.
My grandson said dumb things like this, but there are a lot of bi and gay people now days.
I did the Vitoria Secrets test on him he passed so far.
Originally posted by smyleegrl
* Girls are grownups faster (?)