Is this normal for someone to say?

Just finished catching up on this thread.

OP, a few questions but only if you feel like answering.

1. You mentioned you were seeing a therapist. What type of therapist (general is fine) and how often?

2. Are you taking any medication, both prescribition and over the counter? This also includes vitamins, minerals, herbal supplements. You'd be surprised what can happen when certain meds and supplements are combined.

3. How do you support yourself (general is fine)?

4. Can you borrow money from family or friends to fix your brakes?

It sounds to me like your circumstances are aggravated by something happening mentally. Perhaps you are reading too much into the comment he made, perhaps not. But if he knew your current frame of mind and still said that to you.....then it would seem he intentionally tried to upset you.

If it was intentional....what was the motive?

Hugs to you.