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Originally posted by Iamschist
reply to post by smithjustinb
maybe none of us are really here. Maybe I am part of your imagination.
Maybe I meant what I said, for the level and context I was using as reference..
Originally posted by Lawgiver
Love is what women want. Respect is what men want.
Respect, to me, is allowing others their freedom of expression and accepting whatever way they choose to express themselves. I think that is the most powerful way of being there is and is the fastest way to observation of our divine nature of interconnected unity. Respect, by my definition, is the tool I use to see God in people's eyes and feel the fire of their being. By respecting others, I've come to believe that we are all angels walking the world oblivious to ourselves.
Originally posted by getreadyalready
reply to post by smithjustinb
Respect, to me, is allowing others their freedom of expression and accepting whatever way they choose to express themselves. I think that is the most powerful way of being there is and is the fastest way to observation of our divine nature of interconnected unity. Respect, by my definition, is the tool I use to see God in people's eyes and feel the fire of their being. By respecting others, I've come to believe that we are all angels walking the world oblivious to ourselves.
That is an odd use of the term respect.
I suppose respect can be meant in two directions. One is that you actually respect a.k.a. admire the person. The other is that you respect they are an individual equal with yourself and entitled to their own existence and views. No offense to you, but the second way of defining it is kind of useless. Of course everyone is an individual with their own rights and views and existence, and there is no reason for us to respect a.k.a. acknowledge that fact. In fact, if we feel the need to acknowledge or respect their individual rights, it is almost a way of elevating our self above them, so that we are giving approval to their own individuality?
To compare respect and love, is to compare admiration and love, not acknowledgement and love.
Originally posted by smithjustinb
Desire is a control mechanism. Control is the single most Godless agenda there is.
Originally posted by getreadyalready
reply to post by smithjustinb
I can acknowledge someone that I despise.
Originally posted by smithjustinb
Originally posted by getreadyalready
reply to post by smithjustinb
I can acknowledge someone that I despise.
If you acknowledge someone you despise, you fear them. Acknowledgement is useless if you despise what you are acknowledging. If you acknowledge someone while respecting them, then you are showing love.
1. to admit to be real or true; recognize the existence, truth, or fact of: to acknowledge one's mistakes.
2. to show or express recognition or realization of: to acknowledge an acquaintance by nodding.
3. to recognize the authority, validity, or claims of: The students acknowledged the authority of the student council.
Originally posted by smithjustinb
reply to post by absolutely
How can superiority even be real if all is one?
There is no existential supreriority and God is existence. Its not that truth is superior, truth is just what is. There is nothing other than truth. You have the freedom to be aware of truth or not. The more aware you are, the more aware you are of truth because there is nothing else.
Originally posted by getreadyalready
reply to post by smithjustinb
To think that we "have" to acknowledge someone is putting one's self in an authoritative position. I don't have to acknowledge anyone else's existence, and I don't need my own existence acknowledged.
Originally posted by absolutely
Originally posted by smithjustinb
reply to post by absolutely
How can superiority even be real if all is one?
There is no existential supreriority and God is existence. Its not that truth is superior, truth is just what is. There is nothing other than truth. You have the freedom to be aware of truth or not. The more aware you are, the more aware you are of truth because there is nothing else.
if all is one what r u doing here ??
n why r u meaning to preach wat truth r u selling?? when all is one god to u, how do u justify love n respect ?? since there is no else,
u wont get what u want u will end what u r alone
respect [rɪˈspɛkt]
n
1. an attitude of deference, admiration, or esteem; regard
2. the state of being honoured or esteemed
3. a detail, point, or characteristic; particular he differs in some respects from his son
4. reference or relation (esp in the phrases in respect of, with respect to)
5. polite or kind regard; consideration respect for people's feelings
6. (often plural) an expression of esteem or regard (esp in the phrase pay one's respects)
vb (tr)
1. to have an attitude of esteem towards; show or have respect for to respect one's elders
2. to pay proper attention to; not violate to respect Swiss neutrality
3. to show consideration for; treat courteously or kindly
4. Archaic to concern or refer to
[from Latin rēspicere to look back, pay attention to, from re- + specere to look]
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hon·or (nr)
n.
1. High respect, as that shown for special merit; esteem: the honor shown to a Nobel laureate.
2.
a. Good name; reputation.
b. A source or cause of credit: was an honor to the profession.
3.
a. Glory or recognition; distinction.
b. A mark, token, or gesture of respect or distinction: the place of honor at the table.
c. A military decoration.
d. A title conferred for achievement.
4. High rank.
5. The dignity accorded to position: awed by the honor of his office.
6. Great privilege: I have the honor to present the governor.
7. Honor Used with His, Her, or Your as a title and form of address for certain officials, such as judges and mayors: Her Honor the Mayor.
8.
a. Principled uprightness of character; personal integrity.
b. A code of integrity, dignity, and pride, chiefly among men, that was maintained in some societies, as in feudal Europe, by force of arms.
c. A woman's chastity or reputation for chastity.
9. honors Social courtesies offered to guests: did the honors at tea.
10. honors
a. Special recognition for unusual academic achievement: graduated from college with honors.
b. A program of advanced study for exceptional students: planned to take honors in history.
11. Sports The right of being first at the tee in golf.
12. Games
a. Any of the four or five highest cards, especially the ace, king, queen, jack, and ten of the trump suit, in card games such as bridge or whist.
b. The points allotted to these cards. Often used in the plural.
tr.v. hon·ored, hon·or·ing, hon·ors
1.
a. To hold in respect; esteem.
b. To show respect for.
c. To bow to (another dancer) in square dancing: Honor your partner.
2. To confer distinction on: He has honored us with his presence.
3. To accept or pay as valid: honor a check; a store that honors all credit cards.
love [lʌv]
vb
1. (tr) to have a great attachment to and affection for
2. (tr) to have passionate desire, longing, and feelings for
3. (tr) to like or desire (to do something) very much
4. (tr) to make love to
5. (intr) to be in love
n
1.
a. an intense emotion of affection, warmth, fondness, and regard towards a person or thing
b. (as modifier) love song love story
2. a deep feeling of sexual attraction and desire
3. wholehearted liking for or pleasure in something
4. (Christianity / Ecclesiastical Terms) Christianity
a. God's benevolent attitude towards man
b. man's attitude of reverent devotion towards God
5. Also my love a beloved person: used esp as an endearment
6. Brit informal a term of address, esp but not necessarily for a person regarded as likable
7. (Individual Sports, other than specified) (in tennis, squash, etc.) a score of zero
fall in love to become in love
for love without payment
for love or money (used with a negative) in any circumstances I wouldn't eat a snail for love or money
for the love of for the sake of
in love in a state of strong emotional attachment and usually sexual attraction
make love (to)
a. to have sexual intercourse (with)
b. Now archaic to engage in courtship (with) Related adjective amatory
[Old English lufu; related to Old High German luba; compare also Latin libēre (originally lubēre) to please]
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So what you see as evil Jeffrey Dahmer is really an individualized expression of what you are as human as life. By you saying, "Jeff is evil", all you have done is actuated your own capacity to see what is neither good nor bad as something bad.
Originally posted by smithjustinb
To me, love, in the sense that it is most widely used, actually means "prefer". So when you say, "I love you", most of the time, you are actually saying, "I prefer you". And this is a misuse of the word, "love" and is not love at all.
What say you?
Originally posted by smithjustinb
Originally posted by Iamschist
An example would be a Boss, or a Leader of some sort. I do not love them, but I would respect them, their judgement etc. Another would be someone in a field of endeavor I had need of, an expert. I would respect their education and knowledge, but I would not love them.
Why not? Maybe you love them without acknowledging or even being aware that you do. Do you like them? Like and love are the same thing to me.