I would like to first state that those of you who are going to laugh at me or re-label me, don't waste your keyboard...many, many more intelligent
people have tried. This is my past:
I grew up in an unusual environment. My father worked for various government agencies, and I grew up attending DODDS schools (Department of Defense
Dependents Schools) in fenced-in villages that weren't even on the map. They tried to make the school curriculum as "normal" as possible, and I
excelled at standardized tests. By the third grade, I had a college reading and writing level. I was also a prodigy on the piano, so I wasn't by any
means dumb.
But as a young child, I would have night terrors. Not nightmares, but night terrors. My father would pull my rigid body out of bed as I screamed, take
me into the kitchen, and throw a cup of cold water on my face. It was the only way to stop the screaming. Other nights I would sleepwalk downstairs
while he was still awake, and would refuse to go back to bed, even if it meant a spanking. This is how the insomnia began.
When I was eight, I had my first experience. We owned a cat back then, and I remember laying in bed at some early hour of the morning (my father
removed the clock in my room to try to deter the insomnia), when the cat started growling like a dog at the foot of the bed. I could see the room
clearly because the damn street lamp was right outside my window. I turned my head to the right to see what the cat was growling at, and saw a
demon-like person wearing a black business suit with tie, and sitting casually in the sole chair in my bedroom. He had positioned the chair two feet
away from my bed. I was not afraid, not at all, because I knew he wasn't there to hurt me. Most children would have flipped out screaming, but I
stayed calm. He had a lizard-like face, two horns, but dressed like a human. Looking back, I would say the suit was definitely tailored, as he was the
size and proportion of a professional football player.
He didn't vocalize , but he was able to talk into my head. He told me that we were going to play one hand of poker. This is strange because at the
time I had no idea what poker was, or how to play. He told me that if he won, he would take me "somewhere else where I'd be safer" and that if I
won, I would "get a present that only I could see." He laid out 5 cards, and I remember asking him what mine meant. In truth I don't remember what
my 5 cards were. He thought to me "don't show them to me yet." So I sat up, staring at 5 cards. He never dealt any more. I'm guessing this is
because he already knew what my hand was. I didn't care at all, because at that point in my life I didn't give two splits where I ended up.
I know that I won the hand. The only reason I knew this was because he quietly stood up (the cat still growling and hissing, but remaining completely
still), picked up the deck of cards, smoothed out the creases on his pants, and without a noise walked toward the door. As he reached the door, he
turned around and thought to me, "You're a very lucky girl...." And then he ducked under the frame of the door and made no noises as he left. This
experience changed my entire life.
After that night, the terrors stopped, but the insomnia continued. My mother, a clinical hypochondriac, took me to every children's hospital and
every psychiatrist she could find. Most of them would shrug and say, "She can't die from lack of sleep." One of them suggested that my parents buy
me a notebook to "release stress." And my father would let me stay awake, as long as I remained in my room.
So I would draw and write. One night, I decided to close my eyes and see what happened when I wrote. I don't know how many minutes passed, but when I
came back, the words "Hello, I am Sayrna." Were written several times on one page. When I came back, I felt wonderful, a similar feeling as though I
had slept.
I got addicted to "disassociating" (one of the words the psychiatrists used to describe my episodes). I would wake up and see things I didn't
understand in the notebook. I remember seeing "You used to be a jester before you were you." I didn't even know what a jester was !..(years later
I was voted "Class Clown" in my senior year of boarding school)... All of this time, my parents were asleep, so I felt free to write and draw at my
leisure. The words and drawings became more complex. By the time I was nine, I was obsessively drawing people's faces, people I did not know. They
were not high-quality portraits, but they were all different people.
At ten I was drawing people and their bodies, without clothing. It was then that my 3 year-old brother went through my room and found the notebook. My
mother freaked out when she saw the nude drawings, phrases, and names I had written down. That was when my notebook was thrown away.
I don't know if it was because I was "discovered" by my mother, or if it was just a lapse, but my obsession with drawing and writing erratic
phrases stopped. I took up a new obsession: closing my eyes and letting myself "drift." I can't think of any other name of it. I would see myself
in third person flying just inches above large bodies of water. I would literally hear voices of varying volume, gender, and language. The voices
started going 24/7. I would drift hours at school, and eventually I was sitting in the school counselor's office, being grilled about problems at
home, etc...was my father's career affecting me...blah se blah...She determined I needed more mental stimuli in my life and placed me in GATE (Gifted
and Talented Education) at the age of 12.
I was in GATE for two days, because I inadvertedly thought it was a place for people like me. I talked to the teacher about drifting, about my
watcher, Sayrna, and about the man-thing who showed me at a young age how life can be a big gamble. The teacher expelled me from the program, and
again I was sitting in the counselor's office. She called my mother in, and it was decided that I was too imaginative and trying to manipulate others
to conform to my beliefs. It would be best if I were separated from the other students, but still be able to study. So, by the time I was in middle
school, my schedule was not like any other student's. My first half of the day was spent in the very front of the teacher's desk in the classroom,
getting the essentials (math and english) out of the way, and the second half was to be spent in the library, writing research papers that the
teachers would review independently. The subjects of my papers ranged from an analysis of
Beowulf to how primal human instinct continues to
affect our daily lives.
I was allowed to come and go as I wished from the library, which was a good thing because by this time I was smoking a pack of Reds a day (didn't get
carded in the United Kingdom) to calm me down. I was allowed to go smoke near the football field on the bleachers unescorted, though the school admin
knew I was doing it.
I thought life was grand at this point. I was being educated in a semi-Montessori method, and getting credits for it. I learned to keep my mouth shut
about the voices and visions I saw, but when I reached puberty everything changed for the worse.
The voices and images became louder and much more distracting. Though my parents were acting like everything was just fine, I began to know what was
going to happen before it actually occurred. At the age of fourteen, I got to talk to my father during a rare opportunity (he was always "on the
field"), and I told him that my mother was going to leave him someday. I couldn't tell him the year, but I told him it would happen in autumn, and
that I saw diamonds in the picture. This was his boiling point. He made a few calls, and my confused mother and I were on the next "hop" to a
children's unit in Atlanta, Georgia. My mother cried the entire flight, and when we stepped off the plane the next morning a group of non-uniformed
orderlies were waiting for us. We were whisked to a private hospital in a tinted van, and I was then placed in a locked unit. My mother was taken to a
very large residence for parents of the children in the hospital.
I was not suicidal nor homicidal. I did not do drugs. But I was stuck between a rock and a hard place. How could I live life without expressing my
emotions and thoughts without being locked away? Yes, we were all treated like gold in this place...it wasn't state-run...it was very private with
Ivy-League doctors. When I would see my doctor, if I told him who was talking to me, he labeled me as hallucinatory. If I remained mute, he labeled me
as dissociative. This was when meds were put into the picture.
Sinnequan and Stelazine. I took them and pretended they worked. Everything was just fine. Meanwhile, the voices would tell me secrets about the
hospital staff...that my doctor had a problem with doodling while seeing patients, that a certain hospital aide would leave one of the doors unlocked
at night (I was behind three locked doors in succession), and that I could go into an empty office and make long-distance calls back to my only friend
in England every other night (she was five hours ahead, so she was just waking up). After 30 days, I was released.
For two years I endured the torture of having to keep my mouth shut about what I knew that others didn't. If it became too overwhelming, I would tell
my parents or a teacher, and I'd get hospitalized locally in a unit for military members. I would be separated from other patients because of my age
and who my father was. Half-insane from the impasse I was stuck in, I would tell my physician that I knew he liked scuba diving with his wife. He was
dumbfounded. I just couldn't "contain" anything in my teen years. I didn't know how to tame them.
My mother left my father October of 1994. Autumn.
I was accepted into many universities at 16, but I couldn't decide on a major. I attended Univeristy of Michigan, University of Maryland (European
Division), and George Mason University. I majored in Mathematics and Pre-Med most of the time. Very rarely would I tell people what I knew, because by
this time I knew where I'd end up.
After attending George Mason in Fairfax, VA, I became an independent contractor for the government and civilian sectors, though I received more jobs
from the government, mostly short-term positions. Of course, they knew everything about my childhood through the present. My father was disappointed
that I chose not be a full-timer like him, but I knew deep down I would never be accepted into his "company" because of my record.
They still contracted me, though, and made sure I made more than enough money to keep me clothed, fed, and sheltered in an exclusive environment.
After 9/11, I met a wonderful man who I trusted (and still trust), and closed up shop. Because of my total trust in him, I was able to tell him what I
see and hear. He has an open mind, so he listened intently. We became lovers, and three months later I began hearing, "Do not smoke...do not
smoke..." It became louder and louder that I was covering my ears when he came home from work. He was scared when I told him what was going on, and
he took me to the hospital. We found out I was two weeks pregnant. I was so happy. I was buying baby clothes and converting my office into a nursery.
Two months into my pregnancy they were back, not very loud, whispering, "I'm so sorry M....., I'm so sorry...." One week later I had a
miscarriage. I was devastated.
Seeing the attacks on the Pentagon, and losing our child, we both needed a change of pace. So we moved west. For 8 months I would not leave my
bedroom. My s/o tried very hard to help me, but all I heard was how sorry everyone was. He gave me a month to try to help myself, but I couldn't so
he took me to a well-known clinic in Minnesota. I told them everything that I'm telling you now, and am now ordered to ingest an overdose of :
Seroquel (an anti-psychotic: for the voices...it doesn't work)
Restoril (a tranquilizer: so that I get 3-4 hours of sleep a day)
Valium (long-acting hypnotic: so that I don't talk as much)
Ativan (a fast-acting hypnotic: so that I don't respond to what I see and hear)
Zoloft: (an anti-depressant: so that I don't cry when I see bad visions)
I still have visions of the future and of the past. I still hear voices telling me how to not get hurt (e.g.. yesterday I almost got hit by a car when
he ran a red light, and a voice told me to wait, even though my light was green)...stuff like that. It ranges from the mundane to the very important.
And I'm drugged to supress it. I wish I could live a normal life, but it never has been normal, so I'm figuring it never will be. Anyways, that's
my story, and that's why I'm here.
Dot.
[edit on 26-9-2004 by dotgov101]