The thing with marriage is that its abused and thats why it comes out looking so negative and always taking the brunt of critisim.
Kinda like religion
a few jack offs abuse the system and people get the impression its all bad
With marriage its like these if you don't want to love one girl , spend the rest of your life just being her partner , respecting , her , treating
like like your queen , and empowering each other . Marriage is not for you.
Many fools go into marriage thinking for the sake of family name or to avoid family gossip
They go in not understand wedding vows.
Thats where the problem arises.
You see a man of principal must uphold his wedding vows as something serious
But most just see it as a chore to do on the wedding day .
If more men took it seriously and understood its values marriages would be far better off today. But of course people rush in , not knowing there left
from right and saying i do's like its candy in halloween.
I've never been married , but when i do i will take my weddin vows serious for my self , and try and set an example for the buddies also ,
i will uphold it like a consitution because marriage is not a joke when it comes to most womens hearts :p
they are promises of ones self to another soul , its a fusion of principals on the wedding day ,
when you don't take it serious and rush , you end up with todays divorce rates
when you do take it serious well i'm sure many men can vouch they did the rigiht thing