Originally posted by nightbringr
This esoteric crap is annoying to me. People claim they can feel a change, but when you ask them to explain it, they cant. I suggest it is simply
growing up and having changing attitudes and opinions.
Explain what the back of your head looks like from the perspective of your eyeballs. Or explain in any meaningful way what Red feels like versus
Orange. Describe how it feels to be in love (many words can be used, but nothing grasps the whole thing). Describe "Blue" to someone who has never
seen it.
I'm sorry you can't feel whatever "this thing" is, but you are acting like someone who is color blind griping at people because they can't actually
describe "red" well enough for you to "see" it too.
Perhaps rather than being annoyed... try relaxing and just listening and accepting that what they say is what they are experiencing (regardless of the
truth of it). Rather than trying to figure out who is absolutely right or wrong... instead just try to see from their perspective on *their* terms. It
won't happen first try. Understanding scientific or mathematical issues takes effort and mindfulness. Learning an instrument takes effort and
mindfulness. Learning to understand this experience takes effort and mindfulness too (it doesn't have to, but most of us know no other way right now
to "learn").
If you are annoyed at people who play the piano, and expect someone to "tell you how to play the piano", you are *probably* never going to play the
piano. And that's ok... not everyone has to learn piano just like not everyone has to be "feeling this" thing going on right now. If it's not worth
your time, then don't invest time into it. Having been on both sides of the coin though, I assure you that you won't be very convincing if your intent
is to try to tell us that "it's just growing up". You are doing the equivalent of debating with someone who lives in a certain city about what it
looks like, even though you haven't been there yourself.
An open attitude and state of being is the most important aspect of discovery, growth, and understanding. No matter what the subject matter is.
BTW, I'm a former (till a couple of years ago) "show me the proof" and fundamental materialist. Then I came across a couple of things that made me go
"Hmm..." and then it was a waterfall that I couldn't stop and when it was all over I realized just how "blind" I had been, and how incredibly funny
and beautiful that blindness really is when understood for what it is. But also glad to finally have been willing to "look within", if you will.
Namaste Friend
edit on 11-10-2011 by ErgoTheConfusion because: (no reason given)