reply to post by EternalThought
Okay so I don't know why I'm even posting on this thread... but I found some sincerity and some hilarity so maybe that's why. I would certainly
not be looking for a gf on ATS of all places, but I can understand where you're coming from. I wouldn't want to date someone who has no clue about
current events or couldn't at least humor me by listening to conspiracy theories. That would be no fun.
That being said, I think it's important to have balance. How into ATS are you? I mean, how much time do you spend on here (and other conspiracy
sites)? If the answer is a lot, then maybe you should seek elsewhere for a bf. Someone who has a general idea about what's really happening in the
world, yet has a job and responsibilities too. Someone to compliment you. Not a good idea to date someone who is exactly like you and likes all the
things you like and vice versa. It would get boring quickly. Before too long you'll both find things to fight about if for no other reason than your
unconscious mind desires for your brain to be stimulated.
I think it may be fun to date an ATS-like girl, if she had some balance and enjoyed doing things like going out for some drinks or playing pool... you
know, things like that, that normal people do. I LOVE conspiracy theories, I love reading/talking about ufo's, aliens, energy & consciousness, and
things of that nature. But I also like going to my sister's house on Friday's to play volleyball with the gang, and having a few drinks. That is the
only time I really drink (don't do drugs anymore I did enough to last a lifetime), and it gives me a chance to be around "normal people". Don't
get me wrong - we do get into some intelligent conversation and even talk about some esoteric subjects at times.... But for the most part we just play
volleyball and enjoy the summer weather at the end of a long work week. And honestly, it's good for me. I have fun, and I get to forget about all the
craziness in the world, if only for a few hours. So I value this time and I think it's important to do things like that. If I spent all my time on
conspiracies I would have NO sense of balance in my life and I would probably go crazy.
Oh yeah, not sure who said it - but yes, there ARE guys on here who look/think like Fox Mulder. Not all of us are fat with beards. I'm 28, 6' about
160, clean shaven face always, and more or less clean cut looking. I pretty much wear jeans and a white tshirt (clean and wrinkle free though, sorry
if that disappoints) all the time (other than work, WISH I could wear that to work - I dress like Fox Mulder for work :lol
. I don't live in my
mom's basement. I like hockey (football is okay I guess), I like cars too - I mean come on, I'm a guy... you're being unrealistic with that one.
I'm not obsessed with cars nor do I drive a gas hog, nor do I think cars are of the utmost importance, but I do like them. I like driving stick
shift, and I like to drive fast sometimes. I'M A GUY, even an ATS guy can admit that he likes the sound of a '69 Camaro and that driving one is even
more fun (unfortunately I drive a Honda - it's more practical - but I LIKE Camaros). There's nothing wrong with liking cars or football or for
females to like shoes and nail polish (that's what girls like, right??).... In moderation of course. If I met a girl who was obsessed with nothing
BUT shoes and nail polish I would run. Just as I would expect a female to run if I was obsessed with nothing BUT hockey and cars... The same can be
said about conspiracy-minded people. If that's ALL they're into..... yikes.
And OP - why not post your picture, what are you afraid of? I'll tell you what, I'll post a pic of me if you post a pic of you. Even though we
don't sound very compatible and we're on opposite coasts of the country, I'll post one if you do. I'd like to help, but to be fair BOTH the guys
you are seeking, as well as yourself, are not going to get very far without at least one pic. And if you really DO look like a brunette Posh Spice
then you don't have to worry about Lysergic or anyone else calling you a Net-Beast (BTW the FUNNIEST thing I've heard all week!).
Hope your search goes well, and I'll stick to my word and post a pic of me if you post a pic of you.