1/ Tomboy - one of the boys. Do you have two sons close in ages. Or male mates who are like brothers to you?
---Daddy's girl. You look like your father?
I am absolutely one of the boys and when I was younger, I adopted a dad and his son is like a brother to me and we regularly have a laugh and try to
outdo each other in the gross out stakes
Since I adopted his dad as mine, I've definitely become a daddy's girl and get away with blue murder
You're right in that I look like my biological father although there are times I wish I didn't!
2/ Boxing/ Thai Kick Boxing. Both you and ex? in the past?
Ok, that's uncanny. I met my now husband at kickboxing club although he taught karate. He used to deal with the fitness parts of my training and for
a while, he did become my ex as we had a brief split before getting back together.
3/ Are you into home renovations in a big way? I see you with a drill in your hand. A recently painted room with a Sand or Lemon
Although I loathe renovating, my landlord has asked me to redecorate so it's very much on my mind right now. I'm trying to decide what kind of paint
I want in which room.
4/ You expend too much energy sometimes, then exhausted.
Say yes to too many tasks, and favours for others? Learning to say NO. You allow others to rely on you too much.
You're spot on about that too. I don't like saying no to people because I think it's letting them down but I'm working on it
5/ Talk about blood tests: Aenemia/blood sugar levels/Thyroid? - Again energy levels over the last year.
I just had a blood test on monday because I was getting bad pains in my stomach again and they think I might have an internal infection so they took
the bloods to confirm or deny it. My energy levels have been at an all time low too since my diagnosis and I'm hoping that now surgery is done,
they'll rise again
6/ Young at heart, but also can be very serious. Can come across as superficial, as you don't readily show your much deeper side, passion.
There would seem to be two distinct sides to you. To the point where people will notice it. Just a defense mechanism.
Bang on. Seriously. I literally do have two sides to me, a defence mechanism from childhood so I very rarely let people see the serious side to me and
instead let my slightly silly, childish side be on show so that nobody pays too much attention.
7/ You carry other family members troubles on your shoulders. Tension in neck/shoulders.
Again true, there's been a lot of family trouble and I've been the rock that people crash against
8/ Argument with sister, or a close female. Not resolved.
My daughter is going through that teenage phase and argues with me constantly. I'd like to be able to walk away but teenagers know just how to get
under your skin
9/ Making an effort to heal yourself. In learning mode. Going within for answers this time.
Again you're dead right. After the last conventional method of healing didn't solve the problem, I've been looking for alternative ways of healing
10/ Lack of strength/weakness down one side, you or family member?
I had my right ovary removed because a cyst had melted it and for a very long time, I was weak on that side. Still am but am getting better slowly
11/ Secretarial work. - Change of direction/self employed- would involve travelling/driving. Stress about a bill. Don't worry.
I've always worked in admin or customer services and am trying to decide whether or not to go for the job I've dreamed about for a long time
12/ Of an Ex: He was stupid! Made a big mistake?
My husband and I made a lot of mistakes during our marriage which is why he became an ex at one point and I held a grudge for the longest time but
I've let it go. Stupid was one of the nicer things I said to him during that time
Thankyou so much for the reading Maya! You were spot on, on so many things I got chills reading it!