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If you love your wife and want to stay with your wife. Then you have to cut some ties with your co-worker... You prolly can't change the fact your getting a crush on your co-worker... but if you continue to entertain the thought and have encounters with this woman that doesnt 100% relate to your job, it may end with divorce and heartbreak...
Remember why you married your wife... remember how you felt about her on your wedding day... remember how she looked...
and how would you feel if the roles were reversed... if she was doing the same thing as you... how would you feel?
you got to decide what to do in the end...
Originally posted by RestingInPieces
I've been married for 5 years to a woman who I love more than anything. We've known each other for 10 years. Everything is great and there are no problems in our relationship that I can see.
However, I've developed a HUGE crush on a co-worker at work. We've went out to lunch a few times, IM/email at work, and talk face to face every other day or so. We don't talk out of work at all.
My wife and the other woman have a lot in common... they are around the same age, ethnic, dark skin, pitch black hair, act kind of girly, are always in a good mood around me, and giggle at all my jokes. The last few days I haven't been able to STOP thinking about this other woman. I'm thinking about her when I wake up and when I go to bed. She is almost like another version of my wife, just ever so slightly different.
Anyone else have any experience with this type of thing? It's like a sweet'sour episode in my life. I love and hate the feeling at the same time. I'm addicted to frustration and this is like a frustration orgasm. There is a *new* attraction there and it is exciting to fantasize about the possibilities, but like I said I don't feel torn to make a decision at all.