There's been a strange phenomena happening in ATS. All of sudden it's become popular to rant about women. I usually like reading these threads
because they make me laugh(Sure some ladies don't share my sense of humour though). Just find them ridiculous. Do some guys actually believe it was
different back a hundred years or more?
There's always been this misunderstanding between men and women. We expect them to be this or that way and assume they'll just comply to our
demands. Now my daddy taught me assumption is the mother of all F.. Ups. Which is true. Think some people don't realize women are human. They're not
much different from us. They want things, want to see things, need things. U can't expect all women to be the same just cause another one is.
They're individuals. Throwing all of them in the same box isn't fair.
Now personally I've always had a liking for devious ladies. Don't ask me why. But I find something about it extremely attractive. Maybe I enjoy the
cat and mouse games or just not being able to predict her next move... Usually fall inlove with these kind of ladies. Though, I don't go around
blaming all women for my broken heart. Common sense shoulda told me when you play with fire you're gonna get burned. Same counts for every other man.
U can't go around blaming other women for your bad taste.
Sure I wish it was still cave man times and I could drag her around by her hair. And sure I feel like strangling them sometimes but it's just outta
anger. Also feel sometimes society is being unfair towards men. But that's life. Sure most women feel the same, that there's something wrong with
guys. They could probably write books on what's wrong with men.
Anyway, guess what I'm trying to say is stop generalizing. Not all women are evil. There must be some way to understand our female friends.
Seems that some men have had their hearts broken and refuse to try again for fear they will have their hearts broken again. If more people would
become friends first with those they fall in love with, there would be less problems. Take the time to really get to now someone. My husband and I
were friends first. Been married for 31 years now. Always keep the lines of communication open, never take one another for granted, be yourself,
and sometimes agree to disagree. There is a give and take in all relationships. Allow each other room to breath and grow.
And men, rememer this is the 21st century. Women hold jobs now, just like you. So help with the childcare and housework and what-not.
I have say there have been some pretty extreme threads of late bagging the crazy bitches, but seriously if a woman did everything you wanted what a
snooze. My taste is for a woman that is strong and confident works hard and plays hard, sure she has to be feminine as i have to be strong and Manly
(flexing muscles gritting teethe grrrr)lol. There all a bit nutty but hey thats how i like them you never know what your gonna get.
Seriously I married the first girl that i felt was my equal, we still have some gender based roles around the house I mow the lawns and fix things
when they break, she looks after the washing and most of the cleaning. I do almost all of the cooking. I hold her when she is scared and she looks
after me when i am ill. We disagree as often as we agree, we fight we debate sometimes I win some time she wins but mostly we compromise.
We both work around the same amount of hours and we have both made sacrifices for the others career before, all things considered she is fantastic
even if she is a little psycho at times. I love woman and all there strange behaviors (i cant think of a better word yet).
Men and Woman a remarkably different creatures at the end of the day and people should stop trying to change that. Accept it and embrace it, we are
different but we are equal.
When a Man and a Woman are together they are both stronger in mind body and soul we'are just halves when we are alone.
Ps: The best bit she doesn't mind if i go all caveman on her every now and then.
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For a man to understand a woman,you have to put yourself in their shoes...try to undersand the drives and ambitions they have..Incidentaly campared
with females.. Males are positively benign..their multi tasking brains make them appear, shallow, compared with men..but dont be fooled they work on a
purely intuative basis, and can sum up do or dont situations in no time at all....Remember that theirs no such thing as an ugly rich man,in a females
brain.I dont think i could have physical sex with a a rich eighty year old woman...the above said..They have a flaw,..they are incredibly sugestable.
When you suggest that they are the most beutiful thing that you have seen in ages..they will believe it.If you marry one,dont be fooled that,..that
Pussy is exclusivly yours..Pussy will mate with the best Genes it can get,..Having said that, and accepting the constraints they operate under.Their
Prime directive (to mate with the best genetic provider available) could be the right one.The eggs have a limited life span,and the physical
environment they are raised in is paramount.
You know i can man bash all year and for the rest of my life if i really wanted to, that to me would be a waste of time .
but if i did that id never would have fallen inlove again ...
ill gladly admit I love men ...
yes iv been shattered more then once but sooner or later i did pick up the pieces and i did try again...
you know why ?
theres no better feeling emotionally speaking then the feeling of being totally inlove with somebody.. and also have the said person be inlove with
true we do have our differences but deep down we both want the same thing . that is to be loved and to give love to somebody whos worth it ..
women talk more and bitch more about the short commings of their men folk but you know what that doesnt mean we love them any less . where as men
keep their emotions bottled up til they explode ...
if we could reverse these two huge differences put our selfs in the other peoples shoes for a day then maybe we would understand each other a bit
again i love men
women also worry more about non sense a lot more too. we have a nasty habit of changing our minds often but that should make us more of a
challenge and not too simple to figure out ..
we can love our men folk one day yet at the same time depending on what stupidty came out of the mens mouths want to kill em the next
men have been known to say the most stupidest things at the worst possible times i guess its part of their nature . but then again so can women
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