posted on Feb, 9 2011 @ 12:14 AM
im not at all implying you are making anything up, just that people have a tendency to lie. usually the lie depends on the circumstance so settle the
frik down please.
im the one telling you to get her the hell out of there, but only when it wont come back to bite yu in the ass.
everyone has an agenda, and few will share theirs. people have a way of stretching truth, or changing certain details. so me telling you as someone
who gets paid to tell when someone is lying should stick a little bit, you cannot take it at face value unless you have all of the facts.
you cannot be sure what her motives are, and neither can i. is that any reason to assume that everything she is going to tell you is a truth? is that
any reason to assume im personnally attacking you?
people are manipulative, its unfortunate to say, but they are. just like its unfortunate that she has told lies like everyone else on the planet. it
very well may be true, or it very well may happen differently than she describes.(not all sexually abused people will say they were sexually abused
but will turn to physical abuse rather than tell people the truth.) believing the outcome will be the same. many times it is, and the child doesnt
have to admit the molestation. this isnt neccesarily a good thing to do either as the memories will fester if she doesnt get the supportive help she
the fact of the matter is that this is her adversity, it is her life, and you need to remind her of that. she determines where this life goes, so ease
up. some people are turning it into a joke, m trying to mke sure you have the full picture before you do something drastic. i know you want to help
her, but there is a fine line between doing it for her and helping as aguide
with all of the stupid things that people get sucked into, is that so much to ask?
(btw, not calling the situation stupid, but if you risk your neck to get her out and it turns out they just had a little spat and nothing sinister
happened, you will feel like a d***)
personally, im hoping she is just being dramatic, but with the crap ive seen done to kids, i cant dismiss it as you believe i was doing.
just be careful..try to see the message within my message before assuming my intent pease...too many people assume nowadays. as bad as it sounds, u
are assuming. there is a simple way to find out what happened as well. there are sites that will let you see what officers respond to what calls, in
what area/address, and at what time. find the one for your county and you can ask the cops firsthand what happened, should their stories differ, you
know something is going on. (stories of cop/cop, not cops/female friend)
best regards, and do what is right